“A word of encouragement from a teacher to a child can change a life. A word of encouragement from a spouse can save a marriage. A word of encouragement from a leader can inspire a person to reach her potential.” John C. Maxwell

Motivation Mondays: Encouragement – We all need it!
Nine tenths of education is encouragement. Anatole France
Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble. Yehuda Berg
What does ENCOURAGEMENT mean to you? Why do we all need it? Throughout our lives, we experience a wide range of events; pleasure and pain, success and failure that teach us how to cope with life. While we all do a decent job of adjusting to our circumstances and, hopefully, overcoming them, we need the support of our friends and family to lift us up in our time of need. Encouragement strengthens, repairs, and helps us withstand the storms of life and, as the visiting Pastor at my local place of worship said last Sunday, we all need wing-men (like in the air-force) to help us make it safely back to land. One of the fundamental needs of all living beings is to be loved – with that comes our need to be acknowledged/respected and encouraged.
Without encouragement, we languish in isolation with only ourselves to talk to. We crave attention, not just for the accolades that might come with it but also, for the human connection that we believe will encourage us to continue our work. So, regardless of where we stand in the hierarchy of human development/success, each of us is worthy of encouragement because a word of encouragement is like a gentle rain shower that cleanses, blesses, and rebuilds us. Who have you encouraged today?
A Story: A Most Important Question by Unknown
During my second month of nursing school, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one:
“What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?”
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, darkhaired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.
“Absolutely,” said the professor. “In your careers you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello.” I’ve never forgotten that lesson… I also learned her name was Ruthie! All stories via Spiritual short stories
“Instruction does much, but encouragement everything.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Motivation Mondays: Encouragement – We all need it!

Motivation Mondays: Encouragement – We all need it!
Most of us, swimming against the tides of trouble the world knows nothing about, need only a bit of praise or encouragement – and we will make the goal. Robert Collier
Encouragement to others is something everyone can give. Somebody needs what you have to give. It may not be your money; it may be your time. It may be your listening ear. It may be your arms to encourage. It may be your smile to uplift. Who knows? Joel Osteen
How can we Encourage Others? Every day, we have a choice to make; we can be the lamp or the match of encouragement. What does that mean? As the story below explains, each day, we have a choice to interact with others in multiple ways. We can be of service when we help people find their way or encourage someone we know who is struggling with personal issues. Every opportunity we have to lift others up is a lesson and a blessing in being lifted ourselves. You see, the secret to success is not just how many challenges we overcome on the road to achievement, but also how many souls we encourage to live up to their dreams along the road.
When we make it a point of duty to share encouraging words and inspirational stories with others, we are performing an act of great service and generosity. We live in a world where it is so easy to be a member of the Me Me Club, and while it might have its merits, what greater gift is there than to remember to help and encourage our fellow men and women? Whether we feel motivated to act from a place of altruism or not, if we remember to make a small daily commitment to be of help to at least one person each day, our world would be the richer for it. Why? Because our actions are like pebbles in a pond; they reverberate and spread the same energy across the land and beyond. So, instead of waiting to be encouraged, let’s get committed to encourage others today… Start where you are and bloom. Who will you encourage today?
A Story: A Choice to Encourage by Unknown
A beggar asked Ibrahim ibn Al Adham for charity Ibrahim told him: “I’ll give you better than that;come with me.” Ibrahim accompanied the beggar to a merchant, and asked him to find a job for the beggar. As Ibrahim was well trusted, the merchant didn’t hesitate to give some merchandises to the beggar and asked him to travel and sell them in another city.
A few days later,Ibrahim found the beggar still in a miserable condition; surprised, he asked him about the matter. The beggar informed him: “While traveling, I found a blind eagle in the desert, and I was very curious how it got food though it was blind; I observed it for some time, and, at my big surprise, another eagle came with and fed it. Thus, I said to myself: it’s WHO took care of that blind eagle in this desert who will also take care of me! I returned to the city and give the merchant back his goods.”
Ibrahim,after reflection, asked him: “But tell me, why did you choose to be the blind eagle, not the other one, who could fly, chase, and take care of others?”
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“When you encourage others, you in the process are encouraged because you’re making a commitment and difference in that person’s life. Encouragement really does make a difference.” Zig Ziglar

Motivation Mondays: Encouragement – We all need it!
I hope that my story, I hope that my life is… an encouragement for people, especially in Brooklyn. I feel humbled and blessed. Iyanla Vanzant
I’d like to see where boys and girls end up if they get equal encouragement – I think we might have some differences in how leadership is done. Sheryl Sandberg
Why Is Encouragement Necessary? While I was reflecting on this topic over the weekend, a clarity descended on my mind. As members of the human race, we are part of a highly developed yet complex food-chain. We depend on plants, animals and fruits/nuts for our sustenance and, by the same token, all that we consume depends on a complex combination of forces to grow and flourish. Imagine if all of our life force were channeled toward one selfish end goal, without any regard to connecting and sustaining the whole. What would become of our food-chain? Our planet? Us? It takes a series of encouraging factors to make it all come together for our own good and it behooves us to do our part to keep this synergistic relationship strengthened, repaired and rejuvenated. With every act of goodwill and grace we put into the world, we kindle a fire that helps and heals someone out there. We might not always know but our motivation to help others pays huge dividends beyond what we know. How do you plan to add a word of encouragement to the lives of loved ones and strangers today?
A Story: The Most Important Body Part by Unknown
My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body? Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer.
When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, “My ears, Mommy.”
She said, “No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon.”
Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer.
So this time I told her, “Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes.”
She looked at me and told me, “You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind.”
Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, “No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child.”
Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to Grandpa.
She asked me, “Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?”
I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me.
She saw the confusion on my face and told me, “This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson.”
She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears.
She said, “My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder.”
I asked, “Is it because it holds up my head?”
She replied, “No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.”
Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one.
It is sympathetic to the pain of others. via Spiritual short stories
Source: All stories this week via Spiritual short stories
Any Zen Antics stories via Goodweb.cn

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Elizabeth Obih-Frank
Mirth and Motivation
Positive Kismet
Eliz, your post has encouraged me. Did you ever find out the name of the school’s cleaning lady? ❤️
Yes, it’s in the post at the end of the story. Her name is Ruthie! 🙂
Sorry I missed that. Ruthie is a great name. 😃
Everyone needs some encouragement once in a while. Whether they admit it or not.
Love this! Yes encouragement is so important! Keep spreading your good posts! 🙂
I loved the story about the most important body part. It was so heartwarming! I will share this story with others who need Monday inspiration.
I find encouragement is not only helpful but important. And it can feel really good to give it as well as receive it.
It’s amazing how a few words of encouragement can really turn your day around. Thanks sharing these words of encouragement with me.
I love the story about the quiz! I need to make a point of being more encouraging to other people in my life!
I love how your mom told you the importance of the shoulder. We all need to be there for others.
today was a pretty motivating day for me. more than most days. i think it’s partly to do with my excitement for the weather getting warmer finally. it was beautiful today.
Wow, you are an inspiration! I also wanted to be an encourager and hopes that I encourage someone with my little things.
My husband once told me that some of the most encouraging words that he had ever heard in his life came from a teacher he had. They have not been lost on him.
I absolutely love that necessity-insight about encouragement. It really makes us push more regardless of the odds.
Encouragement was big factor in my life. When I left job, get married and shifted to US, everyone was asking what you do? When I say I have my own blog and people are like why don’t you do job? But when someone know what is blog and they say oh wow you write a blog, that makes me so happy.
That is right, a word of encouragement from a spouse will save a marriage. Everyone should learn how to encourage instead of saying negative words so we can have a healthier relationship to each other.
We always need to look out for the Ruthies, in my office its Scott and he’s always smiling!
I think encouragement is a must. It is always nice to tell someone they are or have done something good and it is equally nice to have someone acknowledge what you do.
Encouraging someone is one of the best things I learned when I have my own family. It is best to encourage your loved ones especially on disappointing situations.
This is so true! My youngest daughter struggles with self confidence and it shows in everything from sports to school work. thank you for the reminder and positivity 🙂
Encouragement is so important, both to receive and give. Sometimes it’s all that stands between succeeding and giving up.
I love the word encouragement! I think that is something we don’t do enough of in our society! This is a great reminder to build up people and not knock them down.
Encouragement is important and by God’s grace I have a family that encourages me a lot. When your family is in trouble, you seek God’s help which is a psychological indicator that we “homo sapiens” require encouragement as our support. Also, there are two sorts of encouragement; positive and the negative one, but I don’t consider negative encouragement as a support. Really useful post.
Thank you Akhil… true
Wow, that story about the Nursing quiz was spot on. We need to take the time to smile and acknowledge everyone.
I like your post, especially the stories. We can truly be an eagle who feeds others and we can always put our shoulders into good use. As they say, it is better to serve than be served. Encouraging others produces a ripple effect that eventually comes back to us in a better way.
It is so important to encourage the ones you love every day.
Whether it be at school, at work, or at home, everyone needs encouragement. Sometimes it only takes a few words to uplift someone’s soul and bring happiness to his day.
So much inspiration! I love the anecdotal stories! Thank you so much for sharing!
Helping and encouraging others can go a long way. I love the story about the shoulder being the most important part. Great life lesson!
In those “cloudy” days i need some encouragement.. Thats why I always keep my friends and family close to me
I encouraged my friend to step out of her comfort zone and finally start her business. I love this post.
A little encouragement goes a long way. Sometimes, the simplest phrases such as ‘Hang in there’, ‘Stay strong’ and the like can do wonders. 🙂
Being empathetic is very important. I try to make sure my kids know they should care about how others feel.
I think everyone could use some encouragement daily. I could use some right now. I’m so tired and having a hard time trying to get anything done.
Hi Eliz, Jackie Paulson, wow, In the past you saw me go through Paralegal college, then BA Tech Mgmt, blogging and moving 10x’s, wordpress blocked me for no reason so I started new under different email and site, hope you enjoy, Miss you and the twins.
Eliz, that is a powerful conversation that you had with your mom. It is so true that everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. Love that perspective. I try to encourage people every day on my FB page. My theme is: Encourage. Inspire. Empower.
great motivation! thank you!
The story of the beggar reminded me of the story of the guy trapped on his roof after a storm. He eventually died after many people attempted to help but he kept saying “God will save me.” In the end God said to him: “I sent you a warning, a car, a canoe, and a motorboat!” The guy obviously didn’t know the meaning of ‘”help yourself.”
The story of most important question about the cleaning lady really resonated with me. I speak to the lady often at my work, often joking or just saying morning. but truly for the life of me I don’t remember her name. I’m sure we exchanged names< i just have a terrible memory. this was a nice wake up call tomorrow I will ask her.
Thanks for that
I love motivation Mondays, they really help get the week started.
Encouragement is very important because it helps people to become more positive in life.
Love the stories! As a former teacher, I know the value of encouragement. And I probably would’ve given up my writing career by now without it!
Great post! Mondays can be a pain in the butt! Always the hardest day to get by but onces its gone things get easier!
I think encouragement and just conversation can help a lot of people. People are afraid to verbally speak to one another. Sending a text is so much easier but I don’t feel like that brings out real feelings.
You always provide such encouraging words! That is why I love visiting your blog!
Encouraging words are so important to everyone. I truly believe that words can either speak life or death to someone. I would rather speak words of encouragement that bring life to someone than discourage someone.
I try to encourage my kids and my husband at least once a day. I think it can make a world of difference.
Oh, how I love to encourage other people. A simple smile can encourage a down spirit so let’s keep the world with full of encouragement!
I’ve always believed in encouragement. With my new life now, I’ve been put in a place where I can encourage daily and often. I’m grateful.
Encouraging other people is a great opportunity to be a big help to others but it is also important that you learn to encourage yourself!
Everybody always need an extra boost. Encouragement can really help people go beyond their norm and accomplish more.
This is very inspirational! Thank you for posting something so encouraging and positive!
I think we all should try and encourage each other as much a possible
What a great story! I love to encourage other people too, it is great to help other from a discouraging situation.
Like the pictures you come up with the word encouragement, we should encourage and show to the one we love that we support them in the right decision they come up with.
Yes I agree everyday was a best life even we have a lots of problem
I need encouragement every day. That’s why I know how important it is for me to keep the kids encouraged. Thanks for the inspiration.
This is a good post, encouragement is best done with concern. Thanks for the post, very worth to read!
I love what you said about us being part of a food chain and needing to keep that going through encouraging others. That is so true and needed in this world 🙂
What a great post. Encouragement and motivation go hand in hand. Thanks for sharing!
I encourage my boys every day. I know they can do better in school, behave better, be better friends and people in general. I hope my words of encouragement stay with them!
We all need encouragement. I have seen encouragement doing wonders to one’s life. Beautiful post this is!
I very much agree that a word of encouragement can change life of many around us, as most of us needs that little push from someone else to inspire ourselves. That awesome quote from Johann Wolfgang sums it up & the pictures are unique as you always do!
I love the story about Ruthie! That is an important lesson I’ve learned during my adult life. Really pay attention to the people you meet. When someone gives you their name, actually pay attention! I don’t know how many times I’ve met someone and asked their name, but I really wasn’t paying attention when they gave it to me and forgot it literally the second the conversation ended. I know many of us do this. Great post!
I think we miss many opportunities to encourage others when we get too busy with our own “stuff”. Your post is an awesome reminder to cut that out!
Encouragement is needed to make you work a bit harder for who ever you are working for or just to do better for yourself. Plus, I think it makes you feel better about yourself.
I personally know the power of encouragement! There were certain hobbies I took up in school days. Those ones whose teachers were encouraging I excelled and rest I didn’t so much..
What a beautiful story! I love these posts so much.
I like to get my family and friends really close because they are my support system for those “cloudy” days
It is indeed a very beautiful and encouraging short story, how nicely his mother told him that shoulders are the most important part of our body.rr
I think a little encouragement goes a long way – you never know how much your uplifting words may help someones day!
If we value positivity, we should also be a positive influence on others. We should always encourage our friends with their worthy endeavors.
Encouragement is what makes the world go round. We do all need to be encouraged in what we do. The encouragement people give to each other makes everyone do their best. When we know we are recognized we try harder to do it right. I love the story of the cleaning ladies name and I do feel it was a valuable lesson to be taught as well.
Instead of criticizing, I’d rather encourage a child especially when he/she has a problem even at school or just anything.
It’s always nice to encourage someone especially a loved ones. Let’s keep encouraging each other and keep this world full of good people!
Thank you for the encouraging post 🙂 I love reading your blog!
I always try to be encouraging to others. It always feels good to have someone cheering you on.
Yes, we benefit even more when we help others.
I don’t think I could have ever gotten through my three years of architecture school without the encouragement of my friends. Its power is truly overwhelming 🙂
Thanks for this! I was down a couple of days but that doesn’t stop me. I love your Motivational posts! It’s helpful thank you 🙂
Thank you Ayesha for making my day! That is all I ask, that it reach those who need it. <3
How do you create your images? It’s kind of cool. 🙂 You always write really thoughtful posts!
TY Aurora! I either use some of my own or do a search for suitable shots on a couple of Domain free photo sites – Wikipedia & Pixabay – then I create a collage of the photos. My credits are at the bottom of the post.
Hi! Mam.
The story of the beggar has impressed me the most. Is that story from any moral science book?. If so refer me the book. I shall love to check that.
Thanks.
There is a link to the source next to the story. TY!
Encouragement is always a nice thing to give, and get. And it really does not take too much to give a little encouragement to others.
it doesn’t take a lot… a smile, a Kind word.
I agree that encouragement from someone you looked up to can really change your life. Thanks for sharing this!
Yes, it can be transformative.
Wow this was so awesome and enlightening…
I’m glad you enjoyed it.
love hooking up to others will try to find this one as well
I really loved that last story because I would never have thought that myself either. Who would have thought it was the shoulder but I totally get it. Sometimes when you’re down you do need a should to lean/cry on, someone to lift your spirit and encourage you on.
For me, encouraging others is important because you will never know if you have just lifted somebody’s down spirit.
I love reading the stories. As much as possible I try to give encouragement to friends who need it. Sometimes, I also try to give the reality check. It is quite tricky to find the balance between the two. -katrina centeno
Nice post, I love to encourage other people because it makes my existence a significant!
We all need encouragement. But I like what you pointed out in one story that it is better to be an encouragement to others. I pray that I could be a better encourager.
I started my morning feeling down, and I felt terrible for feeling down. It’s good to read these words of encouragement, you made my day! Thanks! 😉
So so important a topic. Encouragement! It’s almost impossible to stayed encouraged 24/7 every day even for the most motivated person I know. This is such a moving and inspiring piece, filled with epic golden nuggets for anyone at any point of the day. I am so happy I read this. It’s truly a #MotivationMonday Must read!
Thank you for this motivational post! the images you chose are beautiful.
Just what I need today. My spirit have been down lately due to some circumstances we have been facing. I know God has a reason for putting me in such situation. This too shall pass. So any word of encouragement is appreciated.
i love your motivation mondays post. they are always so enlightening.
thanks for sharing this one as of now I really need an encouragement 🙂
Even the smallest encouragement can go a long way. It’s that extra push that motivates me on days when I feel blah or don’t believe in myself ( yes, I do get that sometimes! ) e.g. workout programs that I need to finish at the gym or deadlines that need to be met. Encouragement adds a dose of positive vibes and it’s very healthy to have it within yourself and within a team or in any relationship.
Encouragement means support for my decision or whatever is is I decided to do.
Interesting story on the most important part of the body. It came to me as a surprise to see that it’s shoulders that’s important. I thought it would be the heart and mind as it could feel pain and it could empathise.
Encouragement is sometimes what we need to move on in life. Encouragement is a great support system to all of us. <3
This is an awesome post about encouragement. This is one of my many aspirations in life, to be able to give encouragement to my readers through what I share on the blog. Thanks for this encouragement today! 🙂
I think encouragement is so vital to us because we all value recognition and appreciation for the things that we do.
Well said. We all need some of it. 🙂
Everybody needs encouragement in any aspects of life. Thanks for sharing Ms. Elizabeth!
My daddy always used to say one word of encouragement to a person can change the mindset of the future. Great post
Your encouraging words and uplifting reflections are always refreshing. This post beautifully reminds readers to stay hopeful, grateful, and emotionally grounded.
Thank you. i needed it for myseif, honestly…
You’re right. Words of encouragement can make a real impact in people, and change relationships for good.
Yes, all the time and it can be a simple gesture.
When we encourage others, we are also building up ourselves. When others encourage us, we feel validated.
Definitely. When we are hurting, it is best to help others who are hurting.
Who have I encouraged today? This post just made me stop and think. Beautiful read!
Yes, I need to say that daily. Social media has turned people vicious. Kind words are still priceless.
Such an uplifting and inspiring read. Encouragement truly does make a difference in people’s lives, even through the smallest acts of kindness or a few caring words. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful message that so many people need to hear today.
Thank you. I needed to remind myself as well.
I’ve seen encrouragement in so many forms, from actual words of encouragement to a hug or pat at just the right moment.
Yes, they can even save lives. I’ve seen it happen.
I always love reading you posts on any subject. You do such deep dives, and you always have so many interesting bits in there. I LOVED the proverb about the beggar. Very thought provoking.
Thank you and I appreciate your blog and feedback too!
A word of encouragement can go a very very long way. You are absolutely right. Sometimes we just need this in our lives to make things happen.
It does make a difference… even a friendly smile or a hello.
We need encouragement more than ever these days. Times are tough in the US, so I always try to be positive and kind.
Yes, we need it more than ever now.
A word of encouragement can truly make a lasting impact. Both giving and receiving that kindness is so very vital for our growth and healing.
I agree. There is a synergy that blesses both the giver and the receiver. Thank you!
I really appreciated this post. Encouragement has such a powerful way of helping people keep moving forward, especially during difficult seasons. This was a beautiful reminder.
Thank you. I needed to read this myself, too.
Omg I love your blog. Have to follow you. This is a perfect thing to start the week with some motivation. We all need some encouragement.
Thank you Lauren, I love your blog too!
I feel like this post is a great read to start our week with a positive aura. Thank you for this.
I am glad that you enjoyed reading it. TY!