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Welcome to Mirth and Motivation!
Mirth and Motivation is a lifestyle and motivational blog offering an eclectic mix of mirthful and motivational pieces: Life Tips / Advice, Affirmations/Wellness, Women’s Lives, Food, Travel, Interviews, Inspirational posts, Reviews, Peace, and social media ruminations on people, places, and events that shape our lives. I invite you to stay awhile, read some posts, and share your thoughts with this growing online blog community.
I started this blog 17+ years ago, as a way to help agents/staff at the company I worked for stay motivated. This was my first blog post on the WordPress site, hence the dodgy title. After the market crashed and we were downsized, I decided to keep it going. The main goal was, and remains, to encourage myself and others to keep moving forward with our lives and embrace the ups and downs we all face. Creating and writing MirthandMotivation has been a long and rewarding journey.
WHAT HAVE I LEARNED?
Over the years, I have learned a lot about blogging, its many positives and pitfalls, and how important it is to stay focused on our own Why or raison d’être. We can choose to focus on one of the fundamental rules of blogging: making connections with others by adding value through our message/content, comments, and social interactions. We can also choose to turn our attention elsewhere. It is entirely up to us.
One thing I know for sure is that if your heart is invested in what you blog about, you will stay the course. Remember to stay true to who you are and why you blog. It can’t just be about monetization. Add value. Help others. Stay Encouraged.
Another thing I know for sure is that we all want to be heard, appreciated, and respected; empowering messages are far more appealing than incendiary attempts to attract blog attention. If your blogosphere surfing brings you here, relax, kick back, and share a positive tidbit on your worldview.
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“It’s a common misconception that only unfit or out-of-shape people get rhabdo. People in great shape, such as firefighters, marathon runners, and professional athletes, get rhabdo. It can happen to anyone, even after activities you have done before without a problem.” Emergency Medicine Clinical Team, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (NIOSH)

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update: Essential Warning Signs for Everyone
The condition can also result from injuries, seizures, certain infections, and some medications or drugs. For example, cholesterol-lowering statin medications have been linked to rhabdomyolysis, although this side effect is uncommon. The higher the dose of the statin drug, or if there is severe underlying dehydration, the greater the risk to the kidneys. Dr. John Graves, MD, Nephrology and Hypertension, Mayo Clinic News Network
People also falsely believe dehydration causes rhabdo. Dehydration doesn’t cause rhabdo, but it can make it worse. Dehydration impairs the body’s ability to get rid of the proteins and electrolytes in the bloodstream released from damaged muscle. These proteins and electrolytes cause organ damage.Emergency Medicine Clinical Team, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (NIOSH)
It can happen when extreme effort combines with other risk factors: heat, dehydration, painkillers like ibuprofen, a recent virus, or a hidden genetic condition… Dr. Sohaib Imtiaz, Chief Medical Officer, People
On the Illusion of Physical Invincibility: As athletes, educators, and coaches, we must prioritize health literacy alongside our physical training. I invite you to read this latest update on my journey, research, and lessons learned from rhabdomyolysis; please share it with your local running, fitness, and family communities, and commit to listening to your body every single day. Rhabdomyolysis, or rhabdo for short, can happen to ANYONE. Many people think it happens only to extreme sports enthusiasts or workers, like firefighters, in pressure-cooker environments. We need to read the CDC and other reports so we don’t dismiss those signs when they happen to a family member or us.
Whether we are pushing through the final miles of a marathon, shoveling heavy snow, working a double shift in the summer heat, or recovering from a severe virus, human beings pride ourselves on toughing it out. As a runner, I see marathon running as the ultimate test of human endurance, and I know firsthand how easy it is to celebrate hitting targets and pushing past “the wall.” Still, my dedication to pushing through pain should never come at the cost of my life.
Similarly, people in heavy, manual labor-intensive jobs should watch for changes in their bodies, as the intensity could trigger an exertional rhabdo episode. We all need to remember that a life-saving difference exists between normal physical fatigue and a medical crisis. Unfortunately, while athletes have a higher propensity for developing rhabdo, no one is immune.
Recently, Rachel Apa, a 24-year-old former Division I field hockey player, collapsed near Mile 24 during her first-ever New York City Marathon and passed away from severe rhabdomyolysis after experiencing rapid, catastrophic muscle breakdown during the race. Her family described her as being in perfect health. The heartbreaking news spread quickly through the Internet and served as a somber reminder of a silent threat: rhabdomyolysis (rhabdo). Rhabdo is a condition, not a disease, that occurs when damaged skeletal muscle cells break down and release their contents, including myoglobin, creatine kinase (CK), potassium, and other substances, into the bloodstream. In severe cases, this process can disrupt the body’s chemistry and damage the kidneys. Complications can include acute kidney injury, compartment syndrome, dangerous electrolyte abnormalities, abnormal heart rhythms, and even death.
Knowing the line between grit and danger is one of the most critical skills we can bring to any physical challenge or race. It is a fine line, and many of us cross it from time to time; however, becoming acutely aware of the implications and potential medical crisis can save our lives.
READ: Motivation Mondays | Rhabdo: Warning Signs for Runners
Motivation Mondays: Running Marathons While Navigating Health Challenges
” There are several common causes of rhabdomyolysis, including medications (statins, SSRIs, diuretics), heat stroke, or any injury where the body is crushed (such as a car crash). But the one you’re worried about is intense exercise. Professor William Roberts, writing for Runner’s World

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update: Essential Warning Signs for Everyone
There are two distinct pathways: traumatic and non-traumatic. Traumatic rhabdo can be caused by blunt force, electrical shock, or crush injury. However, non-traumatic causes are far broader. Skeletal muscle tissue can break down from simple blood flow restriction or prolonged immobilization—such as when an individual is bedridden or unconscious following an accident—causing muscle cell walls to rapidly break down and leak toxic waste into the system. Dr. Boyd W. Haynes III, MD, Orthopedic Sports Medicine Specialist.
It is difficult to predict who will develop exercise-induced rhabdomyolysis before a race … The most important risk factor is unusually strenuous or unaccustomed exercise, particularly a sudden increase in training intensity or volume. Even well-trained athletes can develop rhabdomyolysis under extreme physical exertion. Dr. Marie Vangstad, Oslo University Hospital in TIME
Typically, in the strength training adaptation phase, you create a little bit of injury to the muscle, but the strength comes from when that muscle heals itself, and you recover. Rhabdomyolysis happens when you create more injury to the muscle than your body can adapt to. Dr. Chad Asplund, Orthopedic Surgeon, Mayo Clinic Minute
Key Warning Signs for Everyone: Rhabdomyolysis is a highly dynamic condition. What I learned firsthand is that rhabdo is never a static, “one-and-done” condition; instead, it is a fast-moving, constantly evolving process where your health, symptoms, and lab results can change drastically from one hour to the next. Warning signs can vary greatly from person to person. Still, there are some consistent ones to watch out for: extreme muscle pain, weakness, swelling and stiffening of the muscles, dark urine, dizziness, fainting, and an overall feeling of profound body changes, even extreme fatigue that shows as a loss of physical control or a strange sensation of floating out of your own body. I experienced some of these, but not all at once.
When my muscle tissue broke down, the aftermath triggered a multi-day chain reaction where cellular damage kept building and vital blood markers, like Creatine Kinase (CK), became moving targets. I was in the best shape of my life when it happened, and it was my 14th marathon with no prior incidents.
While a single blood test is the standard for diagnosing rhabdo, it only captures a tiny snapshot in time, and those numbers can skyrocket hours later before they finally peak. This fluid, shifting nature is also why the most dangerous complications often develop slowly. You might feel relatively stable when you first arrive at the hospital, only for your kidneys to come under severe, progressive stress 24 to 48 hours later as fluids aggressively shift into your injured muscles. Surviving rhabdo taught me that you cannot measure this condition by how you look or feel in a single moment; you have to closely watch the trajectory of where it is going.
To help look out for yourself, your training partners, and your loved ones, it is vital to understand the direct indicators of severe muscle breakdown that demand immediate emergency care:
• Extreme, deep muscle pain: Pain or throbbing that feels far more intense than standard delayed-onset muscle soreness (DOMS) or typical cramps.
• Severe swelling or tightness: A firm, “locked up” feeling in the limbs, often accompanied by a visible loss of muscle function.
• Profound, sudden weakness: An inability to lift or move the affected limbs, or a sudden, unexplained drop in physical capability.
• Coca-Cola or Tea-colored urine: A classic hallmark of rhabdo indicating that muscle breakdown products are overloading the kidneys, which can quickly escalate to acute kidney failure.
• Systemic symptoms: Sudden nausea, vomiting, severe dizziness, or an elevated heart rate that does not stabilize with rest.
What are some Actionable Prevention Tips? While no one’s risk can ever drop completely to zero, medical professionals emphasize several primary defensive behaviors for both athletes and everyday life:
• Gradual mile progressions: Avoid sudden, drastic jumps in physical exertion. Whether you are increasing your weekly running mileage (keep adjustments capped at a stable 10% increase) or tackling a strenuous weekend project like heavy yard work, moving furniture, or taking a high-intensity class for the first time, give your muscles time to adapt.
• Respect heat, humidity, and pacing: Heat and humidity drastically amplify muscle breakdown rates, whether you are racing or working outdoors. In warm climates, ditch rigid pace or productivity goals, take frequent shade breaks, and listen to your body.
• Intentional hydration and electrolytes: Don’t wait until you feel dizzy to drink. Formulate a steady hydration habit before and during prolonged activity or hot weather. Drink small amounts frequently rather than chugging massive volumes at once, and include sodium and electrolytes to maintain balanced cell integrity.
• Never push through an Illness or Injury: Do not exercise or do heavy physical labor while fighting a viral or bacterial infection. An active fever or lingering dehydration significantly lowers muscle cell stability, leaving your body highly vulnerable to acute trauma.
• Know your medications and medical triggers: Rhabdo isn’t always caused by movement. Certain prescription medications (such as statins), dietary supplements, prolonged immobility after a fall, or extreme dehydration can trigger muscle breakdown. Always review new medications with your doctor and seek care if unusual muscle pain develops.
“You have to believe; it’s all inside you. Create your own destiny. We need love, and we need to be loved… If we don’t love ourselves, love cannot reach others. That’s the cycle of love.” PK Mahanandia

Film Review: ‘The Cycle of Love’ on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion
The Cycle Of Love – Official Trailer
My mom always taught me: ‘Don’t forget your roots.’ I asked her, ‘What is our root, mom?’ And she said, ‘Love is your root. When your father loved me and we loved each other, you came to this world.’ Now we are proceeding towards love. Let us continue to live with love, in love. PK Mahanandia
Film Review: The Cycle of Love. Last night, I had the good fortune to watch this epic love story on the AARP portal; one perk of being a member and volunteer is that they offer weekly Movies for GrownUps, and the selection is quite vast. If you are looking for a powerful reminder of the human spirit’s resilience, look no further than The Cycle of Love. Directed by Oscar-winner Orlando von Einsiedel (The White Helmets, Virunga), this hybrid documentary tells one of the most astonishing real-life romance stories of the 20th Century with sensitivity and sincerity.
The film chronicles the incredible 1977 journey of PK Mahanandia, a 23-year-old Dalit street artist in Delhi who bicycled 6,000 miles across Asia and Europe over 123 days to reunite with Lotta von Schedvin, the Swedish tourist he fell in love with after sketching her portrait in December 1975. Pedaling a secondhand ladies’ bicycle along the historic hippie trail with little more than his paintbrushes, street smarts, and belief in a childhood prediction, PK’s trek defies logic. Still, it celebrates the power of grace and destiny.
The film’s emotional backbone rests on PK’s background. Born into a low-income family in rural Odisha, India, PK grew up as a Dalit, a community historically crushed by deep systemic discrimination and labeled as the “Untouchable” caste. Shamed and marginalized as a schoolboy, the documentary beautifully shows how PK’s mother soothed him with love and a reminder of a profound childhood horoscope prediction. What was the prediction?
An astrologer had prophesied that PK’s future wife would not be from India, but from a faraway land. She would be born under the sign of Taurus, be deeply musical, and, specifically, own a jungle. When the blonde, aristocratic Lotta von Schedvin sat down at his easel in New Delhi, the predicted pieces fell into place. Her family checked every single box of the astrologer’s prediction. Driven by that childhood prophecy and pure longing after she returned to Europe, PK sold his meager belongings, bought a secondhand ladies’ bicycle, and set off to reconnect with Lotta in Sweden.
“I didn’t run. I just felt in my heart, really, that we were chosen.” Lotta von Schedvin

Film Review: ‘The Cycle of Love’ on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion
He Cycled 6,000 Miles for Love | Oscar Winner Orlando von Einsiedel | CYCLE OF LOVE
What makes the film so uniquely moving is how von Einsiedel handles the sparse 1970s historical footage. Rather than relying solely on talking heads, the documentary blends present-day reflections from the real PK Mahanandia and Lotta von Schedvin with lush cinematic recreations. The documentary also feels intimate because it is a literal family legacy. PK and Lotta’s two children, Emelie (Emmie) Mahanandia von Schedvin and Karl Mahanandia von Schedvin, served as the film’s principal producers. Having their children work behind the camera alongside veteran producers Harri Grace and Chloe Leland helped ensure the film’s portrayal stayed true to the family’s shared history.
Chirag Benedict Lobo (as Young PK) and Mina Dale (as Young Lotta) portray the young couple beautifully. Lobo captures PK’s quiet determination and artistic soul with profound grace, while Dale plays Lotta with a vibrant, open-hearted warmth. Their onscreen chemistry becomes an emotional anchor that elevates this true-romance story into something timeless.
The film also captures PK’s road adventures filled with benevolent characters and unexpected magic. In a series of brilliant production choices, the filmmakers used non-actors in various villages and towns, capturing unscripted, extemporaneous interactions that highlight the overwhelming kindness of strangers PK encountered across borders.
Masterful craftsmanship behind the camera amplifies the documentary’s emotional weight through its creative team:
Cinematography: Franklin Dow wraps the 1970s era in gorgeous, nostalgic tones that make the cross-continental journey feel both epic and intimate.
Editing: Katie Bryer seamlessly bridges historical archival materials, raw present-day interviews, and scripted drama without ever breaking the film’s pacing.
Music: Composer Patrick Jonsson’s score is soft and at times somber, inducing happy tears exactly when it needs to.
Executive Producers: Backed by high-profile champions including Priyanka Chopra Jonas, Anne Carey, Abhijeet Chhabra, and a few others, the film feels grand in scope yet deeply personal.













