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29/11/2008

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor E. Frankl

Hello world: Welcome to Mirth and Motivation!

Hello world: Welcome to Mirth and Motivation!

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Respite Reminder: I'm Taking My Own Advice. Will Check in occasionally. Back in August!

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Welcome to Mirth and Motivation!

Mirth and Motivation is a lifestyle and motivational blog offering an eclectic mix of mirthful and motivational pieces: Life Tips / Advice, Affirmations/Wellness, Women’s Lives, Food, Travel, Interviews, Inspirational posts, Reviews, Peace, and social media ruminations on people, places, and events that shape our lives. I invite you to stay awhile, read some posts, and share your thoughts with this growing online blog community.

I started this blog 17+ years ago, as a way to help agents/staff at the company I worked for stay motivated. This was my first blog post on the WordPress site, hence the dodgy title. After the market crashed and we were downsized, I decided to keep it going. The main goal was, and remains, to encourage myself and others to keep moving forward with our lives and  embrace the ups and downs we all face. Creating and writing MirthandMotivation has been a long and rewarding journey.

WHAT HAVE I LEARNED?

Over the years, I have learned a lot about blogging, its many positives and pitfalls, and how important it is to stay focused on our own Why or raison d’être. We can choose to focus on one of the fundamental rules of blogging: making connections with others by adding value through our message/content, comments, and social interactions. We can also choose to turn our attention elsewhere. It is entirely up to us.

One thing I know for sure is that if your heart is invested in what you blog about, you will stay the course. Remember to stay true to who you are and why you blog. It can’t just be about monetization. Add value. Help others. Stay Encouraged.

Another thing I know for sure is that we all want to be heard, appreciated, and respected; empowering messages are far more appealing than incendiary attempts to attract blog attention. If your blogosphere surfing brings you here, relax, kick back, and share a positive tidbit on your worldview.

 HOW DO WE STAY MIRTHFUL AND MOTIVATED? 
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Veterans Day Quotes and Poems: A Reflection & Honor

11/11/2026

“Honor to the soldier and sailor everywhere, who bravely bears his country’s cause. Honor, also, to the citizen who cares for his brother in the field and serves, as he best can, the same cause.” Abraham Lincoln

Veterans Day Quotes and Poems: A Reflection & Honor

Veterans Day Quotes and Poems: A Reflection & Honor

Veterans Day is a time to celebrate the men and women who have worn this nation’s uniform and to honor their service. Tammy Duckworth
I am so grateful for the service our veterans have given to our country. These men and women put their lives on the line for our safety and security, and we need to honor their service and our commitment to them. Conner Eldridge
Confidence… thrives on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of obligations, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance. Without them it cannot live. Franklin D. Roosevelt
As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. John F. Kennedy
Every good citizen makes his country’s honor his own, and cherishes it not only as precious but as sacred. He is willing to risk his life in its defense and is conscious that he gains protection while he gives it. Andrew Jackson
Duty, Honor, Country. Those three hallowed words reverently dictate what you ought to be, what you can be, what you will be. Douglas MacArthur
Whenever the world makes you cynical; whenever you seek true humility, and true selflessness—look to a veteran. Barack Obama

VETERANS DAY: Every November 11, we pause to honor the courage, sacrifice, and quiet strength of the men and women who have worn the uniform. Today, we recognize the service, resilience, and dedication of the veterans in our workplaces and communities. Stepping forward to protect our freedoms requires tremendous commitment, and we owe a lasting debt of gratitude to both those who served and the families who supported them at home.

Above and below, I’m sharing a Veterans Day reflection along with meaningful quotes and poems that remind us what this day is truly about. Sometimes, the simplest words capture the deepest gratitude. As we reflect and recognize our veterans of the United States Armed Forces, whether they served during times of peace or conflict, at home or far across the globe, let’s remember why our veterans stepped forward to protect the freedoms we experience every day. Cheryl Dyson’s short poem is a poignant and beautiful reminder.

Veterans Day – Poem by Cheryl Dyson
On Veterans Day we honor all,
Who answered to a service call.
Soldiers young, and soldiers old,
Fought for freedom, brave and bold.
Some have lived, while others died,
And all of them deserve our pride.
We’re proud of all the soldiers who
Kept thinking of red, white, and blue.
They fought for us and all our rights,
They fought through many days and nights.
And though we may not know each name,
We thank ALL veterans just the same. Via Macaronikid

Still A Soldier by Timothy Emmons
I lay here today a soldier
I know some don’t understand
I will try to explain
So maybe you can

I served my country
For many a year
I retired long ago
The soldier still here

I put on my uniform
I wore it to foreign lands
The soldier I was
Is still in the man

I have been a husband, father, and friend
To some of you here
But I’ve been a soldier all along
Even after so many a year

My final salute
I render today
I’m still a soldier
I’m just on my way
Copyright © 2015 Timothy Emmons Via PoetrySoup.com

“America’s veterans have served their country with the belief that democracy and freedom are ideals to be upheld around the world.” John Doolittle

Veterans Day Quotes and Poems: A Reflection & Honor

Veterans Day Quotes and Poems: A Reflection & Honor

Honoring the sacrifices many have made for our country in the name of freedom and democracy is the very foundation of Veterans Day. Charles B. Rangel
The battle of life is, in most cases, fought uphill; and to win it without a struggle were perhaps to win it without honor. If there were no difficulties there would be no success; if there were nothing to struggle for, there would be nothing to be achieved. Samuel Smiles
No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave. Calvin Coolidge
Some people live an entire lifetime and wonder if they have ever made a difference in the world. A Veteran doesn’t have that problem. Ronald Reagan
But the freedom that they fought for, and the country grand they wrought for, Is their monument to-day, and for aye. Thomas Dunn English
The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example. Benjamin Disraeli
Without heroes, we are all plain people, and don’t know how far we can go. Bernard Malamud
There is nothing stronger than the heart of a volunteer. General Jimmy Doolittle

Veterans Day, also known as Remembrance Day or Armistice Day in the Commonwealth, is a time when we gather to honor those who fought wars so the rest of us could have world peace. We honor men and women who stood up and took enormous risks so the rest of us can sleep in peace. While some might think it’s ironic to see peace as a goal of war, it is appropriate to encourage all to actively seek peace on this special day: both inner and outer peace.

As we remember those who fought bravely to keep us safe, we must use this opportunity to decide what peace means to us, determine how we can maintain peace in the world, and then dig deep within for our own version of the same. Every day, we owe a debt of gratitude not only to those who served, but also to the military families who stood beside them at home. To every veteran and military family in our community and beyond, we thank you for your service, your sacrifice, and your dedication.”

Inscription by Herman Melville 1819 –1891
For Marye’s Heights, Fredericksburg
To them who crossed the flood
And climbed the hill, with eyes
Upon the heavenly flag intent,
And through the deathful tumult went
Even unto death: to them this Stone—
Erect, where they were overthrown—
Of more than victory the monument. via poets.org

Eyes of Blue by Arlene Smith
A people persecuted beyond imagination;
To help them he felt was his obligation.
He joined the army in World War II;
Not knowing his hell would be Eyes of Blue.

When he reached Normandy, the beaches were red.
Crawling over his brothers who lay already dead.
To give this tyrant, this devil his due;
Not knowing his own demons, would be Eyes of Blue.

He rounded a building securing a town;
A young German soldier was coming round.
He plunged his bayonet, the quicker of the two;
Killing the young soldier, with Eyes of Blue.

He knelt beside him with tears in his eyes;
How long this moment would last, he did not realize.
He closed his eyes as he thought he should do;
Thinking never again to see those Eyes of Blue.

The victor over many in Germany and Japan;
It was always difficult taking life from a man.
None would haunt him, this he now knew;
As long as the soldier, with Eyes of Blue.

He died an old man, to heaven he went;
For this honorable soldier, mercy was sent.
First time since the war, so sad but true;
A peaceful sleep, not seeing Eyes of Blue.

Eyes of Blue Written by Arlene Smith
Copyright © 2015 Arlene Smith   Via PoetrySoup.com

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Motivation Mondays | Rhabdo Update: Essential Warning Signs for Everyone

09/11/2026

“It’s a common misconception that only unfit or out-of-shape people get rhabdo. People in great shape, such as firefighters, marathon runners, and professional athletes, get rhabdo. It can happen to anyone, even after activities you have done before without a problem.” Emergency Medicine Clinical Team, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (NIOSH)

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update Essential Warning Signs for Everyone

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update: Essential Warning Signs for Everyone

The condition can also result from injuries, seizures, certain infections, and some medications or drugs. For example, cholesterol-lowering statin medications have been linked to rhabdomyolysis, although this side effect is uncommon. The higher the dose of the statin drug, or if there is severe underlying dehydration, the greater the risk to the kidneys. Dr. John Graves, MD, Nephrology and Hypertension, Mayo Clinic News Network

People also falsely believe dehydration causes rhabdo. Dehydration doesn’t cause rhabdo, but it can make it worse. Dehydration impairs the body’s ability to get rid of the proteins and electrolytes in the bloodstream released from damaged muscle. These proteins and electrolytes cause organ damage.Emergency Medicine Clinical Team, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (NIOSH)

It can happen when extreme effort combines with other risk factors: heat, dehydration, painkillers like ibuprofen, a recent virus, or a hidden genetic condition… Dr. Sohaib Imtiaz, Chief Medical Officer, People

On the Illusion of Physical Invincibility: As athletes, educators, and coaches, we must prioritize health literacy alongside our physical training. I invite you to read this latest update on my journey, research, and lessons learned from rhabdomyolysis; please share it with your local running/fitness/family communities, and commit to listening to your body every single day. Rhabdomyolysis, or rhabdo for short, can happen to ANYONE. Many people think it happens only to extreme sports enthusiasts or workers, like firefighters, in pressure-cooker environments. It is imperative that we read the CDC and other reports so we won’t dismiss those signs when they happen to a family member or us

Marathon running is the ultimate test of human endurance, but our dedication to pushing through the pain should never come at the cost of our lives. As runners, we pride ourselves on hitting our targets and pushing past “the wall,” but a life-saving difference exists between standard race-day fatigue and a medical crisis. Unfortunately, while athletes have a higher propensity for developing Rhabdo, no one is immune.

Recently, Rachel Apa, a 24-year-old former Division I field hockey player, collapsed near Mile 24 during her first-ever New York City Marathon and passed away from severe rhabdomyolysis after experiencing rapid, catastrophic muscle breakdown during the race. Her family described her as being in perfect health. The heartbreaking news spread quickly through the Internet and served as a somber reminder of a silent threat in the endurance community: Rhabdomyolysis (Rhabdo). Rhabdo is a condition, not a disease, that occurs when damaged skeletal muscle cells break down and release their contents, including myoglobin, creatine kinase (CK), potassium, and other substances, into the bloodstream. In severe cases, this process can disrupt the body’s chemistry and damage the kidneys. Complications can include acute kidney injury, compartment syndrome, dangerous electrolyte abnormalities, abnormal heart rhythms, and even death.

As athletes, knowing the line between grit and danger is the most critical skill we can bring to any race. It is a fine line, and many of us cross it from time to time; however, becoming acutely aware of the implications and potential medical crisis can save our lives.
READ: Motivation Mondays | Rhabdo: Warning Signs for Runners
Motivation Mondays: Running Marathons While Navigating Health Challenges

 

” There are several common causes of rhabdomyolysis, including medications (statins, SSRIs, diuretics), heat stroke, or any injury where the body is crushed (such as a car crash). But the one you’re worried about is intense exercise. Professor William Roberts, writing for Runner’s World

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update Essential Warning Signs for Everyone

Motivation Mondays Rhabdo Update: Essential Warning Signs for Everyone

There are two distinct pathways: traumatic and non-traumatic. Traumatic rhabdo can be caused by blunt force, electrical shock, or crush injury. However, non-traumatic causes are far broader. Skeletal muscle tissue can break down from simple blood flow restriction or prolonged immobilization—such as when an individual is bedridden or unconscious following an accident—causing muscle cell walls to rapidly break down and leak toxic waste into the system. Dr. Boyd W. Haynes III, MD, Orthopedic Sports Medicine Specialist.

It is difficult to predict who will develop exercise-induced rhabdomyolysis before a race … The most important risk factor is unusually strenuous or unaccustomed exercise, particularly a sudden increase in training intensity or volume. Even well-trained athletes can develop rhabdomyolysis under extreme physical exertion. Dr. Marie Vangstad, Oslo University Hospital in TIME

Typically, in the strength training adaptation phase, you create a little bit of injury to the muscle, but the strength comes from when that muscle heals itself, and you recover. Rhabdomyolysis happens when you create more injury to the muscle than your body can adapt to. Dr. Chad Asplund, Orthopedic Surgeon, Mayo Clinic Minute

Key Warning Signs for Runners/Non-Runners: Rhabdomyolysis is a highly dynamic condition. What I learned firsthand is that rhabdo is never a static, “one-and-done” injury; instead, it is a fast-moving, constantly evolving process where your health, symptoms, and lab results can change drastically from one hour to the next. Warning signs can vary greatly from person to person. Still, there are some consistent ones to watch out for: extreme muscle pain, weakness, swelling and stiffening of the muscles, dark urine, dizziness, fainting, and an overall feeling of profound body changes, even extreme fatigue that shows as a loss of physical control or a strange sensation of floating out of your own body. I experienced some of these, but not all at once.

When my muscle tissue broke down, the aftermath triggered a multi-day chain reaction where cellular damage kept building and vital blood markers, like Creatine Kinase (CK), became moving targets. A single blood test only captures a tiny snapshot in time, and those numbers can skyrocket hours later before they finally peak. This fluid, shifting nature is also why the most dangerous complications often develop slowly. You might feel relatively stable when you first arrive at the hospital, only for your kidneys to come under severe, progressive stress 24 to 48 hours later as fluids aggressively shift into your injured muscles. Surviving rhabdo taught me that you cannot measure this condition by how you look or feel in a single moment; you have to closely watch the trajectory of where it is going. To help look out for yourself and your running/training partners, it is vital to understand the direct indicators of severe muscle breakdown that demand immediate emergency care:
• Extreme, deep muscle pain: Pain or throbbing that feels far more intense than standard delayed-onset muscle soreness (DOMS) or typical race cramps.
• Severe swelling or tightness: A firm, “locked up” feeling in the limbs, often accompanied by a visible loss of muscle function.
• Profound, sudden weakness: An inability to lift or move the affected limbs, or a sudden, unexplained drop in physical capability.
• Coca-Cola or Tea-colored urine: A classic hallmark of rhabdo indicating that muscle breakdown products are overloading the kidneys, which can quickly escalate to acute kidney failure.
• Systemic symptoms: Sudden nausea, vomiting, severe dizziness, or an elevated heart rate that does not stabilize with rest.

What are some Actionable Prevention Tips? While an athlete’s risk can never drop completely to zero, sports medicine professionals emphasize several primary defensive behaviors:
• Gradual mile progressions: Avoid sudden, drastic jumps in workout intensity or distance. Keep weekly mileage adjustments capped at a stable 10% increase to let skeletal muscle adapt.
• Strategic pacing & heat de-escalation: Environmental heat and humidity drastically amplify muscle breakdown rates. When racing in warm climates, proactively ditch rigid time goals, lower your pacing targets, and run strictly by physical effort.
• Sweat-rate and hydration: Formulate an intentional hydration protocol well before race day by evaluating your unique sweat rate. Drink small amounts frequently rather than chugging massive volumes infrequently, and incorporate targeted sodium and electrolyte replacements to maintain balanced cell integrity.
• Avoid racing while sick or impaired: Do not push through viral or bacterial illnesses. Exercising with an active fever significantly lowers muscle cell stability, leaving your body highly vulnerable to acute trauma.

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Film Review: ‘The Cycle of Love’ on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion

02/11/2026

“You have to believe; it’s all inside you. Create your own destiny. We need love, and we need to be loved… If we don’t love ourselves, love cannot reach others. That’s the cycle of love.” PK Mahanandia

Film Review: 'The Cycle of Love' on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion

Film Review: ‘The Cycle of Love’ on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion


The Cycle Of Love – Official Trailer

My mom always taught me: ‘Don’t forget your roots.’ I asked her, ‘What is our root, mom?’ And she said, ‘Love is your root. When your father loved me and we loved each other, you came to this world.’ Now we are proceeding towards love. Let us continue to live with love, in love. PK Mahanandia

Film Review: The Cycle of Love. Last night, I had the good fortune to watch this epic love story on the AARP portal; one perk of being a member and volunteer is that they offer weekly Movies for GrownUps, and the selection is quite vast. If you are looking for a powerful reminder of the human spirit’s resilience, look no further than The Cycle of Love. Directed by Oscar-winner Orlando von Einsiedel (The White Helmets, Virunga), this hybrid documentary tells one of the most astonishing real-life romance stories of the 20th Century with sensitivity and sincerity.

The film chronicles the incredible 1977 journey of PK Mahanandia, a 23-year-old Dalit street artist in Delhi who bicycled 6,000 miles across Asia and Europe over 123 days to reunite with Lotta von Schedvin, the Swedish tourist he fell in love with after sketching her portrait in December 1975. Pedaling a secondhand ladies’ bicycle along the historic hippie trail with little more than his paintbrushes, street smarts, and belief in a childhood prediction, PK’s trek defies logic. Still, it celebrates the power of grace and destiny.

The film’s emotional backbone rests on PK’s background. Born into a low-income family in rural Odisha, India, PK grew up as a Dalit, a community historically crushed by deep systemic discrimination and labeled as the “Untouchable” caste. Shamed and marginalized as a schoolboy, the documentary beautifully shows how PK’s mother soothed him with love and a reminder of a profound childhood horoscope prediction. What was the prediction?

An astrologer had prophesied that PK’s future wife would not be from India, but from a faraway land. She would be born under the sign of Taurus, be deeply musical, and, specifically, own a jungle. When the blonde, aristocratic Lotta von Schedvin sat down at his easel in New Delhi, the predicted pieces fell into place. Her family checked every single box of the astrologer’s prediction. Driven by that childhood prophecy and pure longing after she returned to Europe, PK sold his meager belongings, bought a secondhand ladies’ bicycle, and set off to reconnect with Lotta in Sweden.

“I didn’t run. I just felt in my heart, really, that we were chosen.” Lotta von Schedvin

Film Review: 'The Cycle of Love' on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion

Film Review: ‘The Cycle of Love’ on Destiny, Distance, & Devotion


He Cycled 6,000 Miles for Love | Oscar Winner Orlando von Einsiedel | CYCLE OF LOVE

 

What makes the film so uniquely moving is how von Einsiedel handles the sparse 1970s historical footage. Rather than relying solely on talking heads, the documentary blends present-day reflections from the real PK Mahanandia and Lotta von Schedvin with lush cinematic recreations. The documentary also feels intimate because it is a literal family legacy. PK and Lotta’s two children, Emelie (Emmie) Mahanandia von Schedvin and Karl Mahanandia von Schedvin, served as the film’s principal producers. Having their children work behind the camera alongside veteran producers Harri Grace and Chloe Leland helped ensure the film’s portrayal stayed true to the family’s shared history.

Chirag Benedict Lobo (as Young PK) and Mina Dale (as Young Lotta) portray the young couple beautifully. Lobo captures PK’s quiet determination and artistic soul with profound grace, while Dale plays Lotta with a vibrant, open-hearted warmth. Their onscreen chemistry becomes an emotional anchor that elevates this true-romance story into something timeless.
The film also captures PK’s road adventures filled with benevolent characters and unexpected magic. In a series of brilliant production choices, the filmmakers used non-actors in various villages and towns, capturing unscripted, extemporaneous interactions that highlight the overwhelming kindness of strangers PK encountered across borders.

Masterful craftsmanship behind the camera amplifies the documentary’s emotional weight through its creative team:
Cinematography: Franklin Dow wraps the 1970s era in gorgeous, nostalgic tones that make the cross-continental journey feel both epic and intimate.
Editing: Katie Bryer seamlessly bridges historical archival materials, raw present-day interviews, and scripted drama without ever breaking the film’s pacing.
Music: Composer Patrick Jonsson’s score is soft and at times somber, inducing happy tears exactly when it needs to.
Executive Producers: Backed by high-profile champions including Priyanka Chopra Jonas, Anne Carey, Abhijeet Chhabra, and a few others, the film feels grand in scope yet deeply personal.

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