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Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

30/04/2018

“When your failures surround you, and all the open doors have closed, look up. There’s a door that never closes, a way, when all the other ways have failed you.” Yasmin Mogahed

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

A door opens to me. I go in and am faced with a hundred closed doors. Antonio Porchia
Often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. Helen Keller
There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception. Aldous Huxley

What Does a Closed Door Mean to You? Quite often, we view a closed door as a negative symbol; it can represent denial or rejection of expectations or opportunities, but that is NOT entirely true. A closed door can be beneficial, as a denied or slammed door we experience can lead us in a new and better direction. A rejection can be a form of protection against potential adversity associated with what we might believe is good but actually isn’t. Over the years, I have had my share of rejections, and while some hurt and led nowhere, others opened new and far more beneficial doors for me. I remember one job I was so eager to have because I felt supremely qualified for it. I applied, did everything right, and was in the running as one of the final 3 candidates.
When the choice was made, and 2 of us were cut, I was very upset. As far as I was concerned, I was the most qualified for the position, but that didn’t matter. They picked someone else, and I had to move on. The door closed on that position, and I found a far more rewarding, growth-driven opportunity that helped me learn new skills. Many months later, I heard the position had opened again. This time, I was not in a hurry because I had also learned that it was not an ideal work environment. The Closed Door had offered me protection and a new direction, not rejection. Think of your closed door experiences and the lessons learned.

READ: Inspiration: The Story Behind The Door

 

“Nothing in life has happened to you. It’s happened for you. Every disappointment. Every wrong. Even every closed door has helped make you into who you are.” Joel Osteen

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Another train will come. Why rush? Why worry? Why go crazy? Another train will come. And sure enough, another train going my way was pulling into the station. My bad mood evaporated. I entered the car smiling, certain that there would be more missed trains in my life, more closed doors in my face, but there would always be another train rumbling down the tracks in my direction. Esmeralda Santiago
We must open the doors of opportunity. But we must also equip our people to walk through those doors. Lyndon B. Johnson

Is it Wise To Walk Away? I know we have all heard sayings about breaking down doors and walking through closed doors to grab our opportunities, but is this sage advice 100% of the time? I don’t think so. Sure, we want doors of opportunity to open for us, and we also want to be prepared for the challenges and growth that come from our experiences. However, there are times when we can choose not to walk through certain doors or be grateful that some doors stay shut. If walking through a door would lead us into a chaotic or hostile situation, it would be best to leave the door closed. Why? Because it is a mark of honor to avoid an unnecessary fight, especially a fight with someone who has nothing to lose. So, just as we are encouraged to choose our battles, we must also meditate on the wisdom of choosing our doors. If we pay attention and reflect on our situations, we will soon better understand our outcomes. They are not random. Think about your own experiences.

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“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” Alexander Graham Bell

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

Motivation Mondays: CLOSED DOORS

The doors of wisdom are never shut. Benjamin Franklin
I knew well that the only way I could get that door open was to knock it down; because I knocked all of them down. Sadie Tanner Mossell Alexander
You have to come to your closed doors before you get to your open doors… What if you knew you had to go through 32 closed doors before you got to your open door? Well, then you’d come to closed door number eight and you’d think, ‘Great, I got another one out of the way’… Keep moving forward. Joel Osteen
The lips of the wise are as the doors of a cabinet; no sooner are they opened, but treasures are poured out before thee. Akhenaton

Is Your Door Open or Closed? While we are on the subject of external doors, we need to consider the internal doors we carry around with us. They are as important (maybe more so) as the real, concrete doors we encounter in our lives. As I mentioned earlier, a closed door can be beneficial, as a denial or a slammed door we experience can lead us in a new and better direction. A rejection can be a form of protection against potential harms associated with what we might believe is good for us but actually isn’t. But far more important are the internal doors we carry with us. Happiness is an inside job, and external factors offer a temporary band-aid. If we don’t take care of our inner dialogue and work through our baggage, we’d stay stuck in certain areas of our lives. How many of our internal doors are shut because we allow others to live rent-free in our heads? How many of our internal doors are sealed shut because of hurts and fears? Food for thought. We are here to experience life’s ups and downs and to be a blessing to others… So use affirmations to refocus on what feeds/fuels you. BREATHE! More affirmations later

READ: Reflections: Change Happens – A Story
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Until Next Time…
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Elizabeth Obih-Frank
Mirth and Motivation
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130 Comments leave one →
  1. emman damian permalink
    30/04/2018 10:33 pm

    For me, when one door closes, Another one will open. For me, it represent opportunities in life. Sometimes, when a door closes, we can wait for a window to open. It means we have to be patient in life.

  2. Adriana C. (@adrianalately) permalink
    30/04/2018 8:04 pm

    I love that quote by Benjamin Franklin! I am a great believer that when one door closes another one opens.

  3. acraftymix permalink
    30/04/2018 11:24 pm

    So true Elizabeth, but it’s not always easy to recognize and see that a door that slammed closed is a good thing. We become so focused on that one door that shut that we forget to see all the others that are opening up all around us.

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      01/05/2018 3:48 am

      True and we all do this. That is why we need reminders to learn to let go and let the process unfold.<3

  4. miljance93mommysup permalink
    01/05/2018 3:39 am

    I saw a post on Instagram first. Later, when I came to this post here – it inspired even more. Great things happen to those who are ready to recieve anything. I love this so much!

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      01/05/2018 3:53 am

      Thank you Miljance.. Well said. We get what we give. 🙂

  5. Preet permalink
    01/05/2018 4:46 am

    You are truly an inspiration. This is e=veru encouraging. I believe that if one doors close anothe rone will open.

  6. Taylor @ Not Quite an Adult permalink
    01/05/2018 5:55 am

    Wow, this was exactly what I needed to read today! I need to rememeber that some doors shut for a reason.

  7. Geraline Batarra permalink
    01/05/2018 7:20 am

    Such a nice post very motivational and inspirational I never thought that closed doors also signify a protection from adversities but I still choose to open my door I want to welcome every little things in this life even if it’s good or bad as long as we know how to handle it and as long as we learn from it.

  8. Czjai Reyes-Ocampo permalink
    01/05/2018 4:23 am

    Years ago, I had planned on leaving the country to work abroad. Things didn’t go the way I wanted them to be and that became my closed door. If it weren’t for this setback, I probably would not have met the love of my life and have this wonderful son. 🙂

  9. GiGi Eats Celebrities permalink
    01/05/2018 6:10 am

    To me closed doors mean other doors will be opening momentarily! There is always a new beginning around the corner!

  10. Cia Black permalink
    01/05/2018 6:51 am

    Doors, the one thing that you can use to lock yourself in with away from the world or choose to open and escape to the world of unbeknownst obstacle. That’s what doors means to me.

  11. Jacqui Odell permalink
    01/05/2018 7:02 am

    Lots of great pictures! As much as closed doors are a pain and stressful in the end it always ends better when you find the right open door.

  12. Gladys Parker permalink
    01/05/2018 7:16 am

    I have 2 thoughts on this. God can open or close a door depending on what he wants for us. Also sometimes a closed door is like an unanswered prayer, like your job.

  13. nadaliebardo permalink
    01/05/2018 10:58 am

    I love how you phrased the ending of the true message and how we should interpret the direction we should take. We can be quick to move on a decision or path we “think” is the best for that moment. You’re right, it needs deep meditation and thought on choosing the right path.

  14. tanviidotcom permalink
    01/05/2018 8:26 am

    I think we all need better skills to objectively see the things and situations around (closed doors included) – Every door is not an obstacle. It could also be a sigh that, that is not the path we are meant to taken and just need to be patience. Great thought provoking post!

  15. Kristy B permalink
    01/05/2018 8:58 am

    Sometimes a closed door is a blessing- we just may not realize it yet. Once that door is closed, we are free to move on to better opportunities!

  16. Karlyn Cruz permalink
    01/05/2018 9:08 am

    Oh dear Elizabeth. I went through something very similar years ago. I trained a girl in my department and she ended up being my supervisor. It was bad but then later I realized I was meant for a different path because things actually turned out great. I think when doors close, we do have to just take deep breaths and accept that that was not the path we were meant to take.

  17. Ithfifi Williams / IthinityBeauty permalink
    01/05/2018 9:13 am

    As one door closes, another opens comes to mind. Without you prompting me to think I would have automatically assumed it to be a negative outlook too but I guess sometimes you need to close a door or two to be able to open new ones to exciting and new experiences, different chapters of our lives.

  18. mary permalink
    01/05/2018 1:26 pm

    I love this inspirational post of insight and exploration of our true self and the good and bad that surrounds us. Doors that are closed are closed for me. However that doesn’t mean I give up, I just search for those that are open.

  19. Jessy permalink
    01/05/2018 11:21 am

    I love the detailed analogy to closed doors, along with all the many beautiful photos. This makes for the perfect Monday motivation!

  20. Melanie Poulos Walsh permalink
    01/05/2018 12:22 pm

    My family is going through what you’ve described with your previous job hunt. My husband just finished grad school and is looking to advance his career. With the new hunt bring closed doors, but it’s not dead ends. Need to share the inspiration with him!

  21. Rachel permalink
    01/05/2018 12:38 pm

    Such an interesting read. It’s funny how closed doors are seen as a negative but something I think it can be good to close the door on something negative or that isnt good for you – close the door and move on.

  22. Ashley - Honey & Pine Co (@ashleyfromHP) permalink
    01/05/2018 1:24 pm

    I’ve been working hard on trying to recognize the growth or new opportunities behind every perceived failure. It’s hard (so hard, sometimes) but a closed door isn’t necessarily the end of the road, it’s just redirecting you down a new path.

  23. Angela Sellari permalink
    01/05/2018 5:15 pm

    This is a great reminder that even though things don’t always go our way, it may not be a bad thing. All we can do is move forward to the next opportunity.

  24. themommyspice permalink
    01/05/2018 5:08 pm

    I believe doors tell a story and these pictures you have are so beautiful!

  25. Monique Medina permalink
    01/05/2018 8:19 pm

    Wonderful thoughts! I made it to the final round of a tough potential internship process only to get cut at the end. But I landed one I applied to as a backup, with more responsibilities and opportunities to grow. Sometimes a closed door is a blessing!

  26. Explore The 6 permalink
    01/05/2018 5:27 pm

    When one door closes, another door opens, just have to stay positive and be ready when that time comes 🙂

  27. Michele permalink
    01/05/2018 5:35 pm

    I am a firm believer of when one door closes another opens! It has happened quite a few times in my life!

  28. twinspirational permalink
    01/05/2018 9:51 pm

    Those are some beautiful doors, and we definitely agree with your quote. It’s always good to think about karma and there’s another door open around the corner if one door is closed.

  29. Alison Rost permalink
    01/05/2018 10:35 pm

    I think doors are bound to close as we go through life and sometimes it stays shut. It’s important that we learn how to move past that and to accept it as well. Besides, a door closing means another chance for us to open a new one.

  30. Samantha permalink
    01/05/2018 10:57 pm

    It can be hard to see at the time, but when a door closes, it’s always for our highest good. The door can sometimes reopen later if it is meant for us. Sometimes, we have to get out of our own way and look at the bigger picture.

  31. kumamonjeng permalink
    01/05/2018 11:05 pm

    I always believe there will be another door open if one closes. This really happened to me few times in life and it turn out to be a better option and better path for me. I am a strong believer in this quote.

  32. Esme Sy permalink
    02/05/2018 4:51 am

    I’ve read a fine line that says, whenever a door closes, another one opens. I think that’s the best way to interpret it. And it’s funny how I just realized that there’s a picture of the same quote up there, I rarely hear it but it seems to be a famous motivational phrase.

  33. Noelle Lynne permalink
    02/05/2018 2:58 am

    Love all the doors, they are my favorite things to look at while traveling! Love your writing and I feel I have even more reason to look at doors now.

  34. Evelyn, PathofPresence permalink
    02/05/2018 3:14 am

    I love these photos of doors. These are gorgeous pics and they go perfectly with your insightful post about our guided path. I also love the opening quote about looking up. So poignant and positive!

  35. Edwin Prasetio permalink
    02/05/2018 4:56 am

    Open door is much better. It represents we always our hearts wide open, as wide as oceans. That will make us happy ever after..

  36. Meghan Karaan permalink
    02/05/2018 8:06 am

    Closed doors are definitely looked upon as something negative far too often. Sometimes we need to look at it as if that door is not the right one and there is something else bigger and better in store for us!

  37. Elisha Fernandez permalink
    02/05/2018 7:57 am

    I think a closed door is a sign that something better is out there and we need to keep knocking. When we ask, we receive, but when we don’t receive, we need to keep going!

  38. Nati permalink
    02/05/2018 8:16 am

    As always your post is wise, Elizabeth. It makes me reflect upon my life and that’s always a good thing! I come from a country where opportunities are a VERY rare thing. In our imaginary opportunities aren’t doors, opened or closed, those are like trains that pass only once in a lifetime and don’t stop, rather you have to run and jump into it. Of course, not everyone is capable of this. Only very prepared, well-trained, with an extraordinary strength, determination and rapidity can jump successfully. But even when you have all these qualities, some people live their whole existence and not train will show up.
    When I came to Europe and I actually found the doors, for me it was a blessing I never dreamed of. Because, a door might be opened or closed, but that door is not going anywhere. Sometimes, when you find a closed door, all you need to do is politely go and knock. Even a closed door hides a promise, I wasn’t aware it existed. Because I never imagined that kind of opportunities were real. What can I say? my child is attending a bilingual school that is totally free. When was I going to dream with that? I have certainly been blessed.

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      03/07/2026 12:27 pm

      So true. Gratitude is so important as the doors can be blessings.

  39. ktmommyscene permalink
    02/05/2018 11:52 am

    Doors are so interesting. They can be a welcoming entrance or a barrier. I love the pops of color on homes that have bright doors.

  40. Tiffany Yong permalink
    02/05/2018 9:55 am

    This post is so apt for me right now. As you know, I’m in the acting competition. I too felt that I had a good chance getting into at least top 5, but I wasn’t selected. It made me really really disappointed and I cried for days… Thanks for this timely advice. Will look into this more.

  41. Holly permalink
    02/05/2018 10:23 am

    You have such a great perspective. Love this. Thank you for the encouraging words….it really made me think.

  42. thetripwishlist permalink
    02/05/2018 4:42 pm

    As an architecture person, I love doors, and they also make the most powerful metaphors. Your posts are always so meaningful and thought-provoking. For me, if a doors is closed, it means it wasn’t for me. But I always want to be prepared when opportunity knocks!

  43. lexieanimetravel permalink
    02/05/2018 1:49 pm

    I liked the last part about if my door is open or closed, I gues my answer would be it’s always open. Open to help anyone, anybody that needs my help. We often forget that our purpose as a person is not just about our personal achievement “success” there’s always this special door that we have to help other people who are in need. Great article!

  44. Karen Giuliana permalink
    02/05/2018 2:58 pm

    This is such an amazing perspective to have. I honestly never thought of it that way?! I was the person that would be like it’s closed and move on, as opposed to being it’s closwd but here’s how I grew and learned! Thanks for sharing, it was so informative and motivating!

  45. Carol Cassara permalink
    02/05/2018 9:01 pm

    There are so many ways to define closed doors. But for me it’s ending something to open a new adventure in your life! I’ve closed so many doors in the past years and I’d say it’s definitely part of our lives.

  46. Ms. P permalink
    03/05/2018 12:54 am

    I am glad you touched upon the subject of internal doors! Its important to always think that whatever is happening its for the good and pick ourselves up and move on. Thanks for sharing this.

  47. Rose Ann Sales permalink
    03/05/2018 4:30 am

    I would love to choose both doors because I am sometimes a closed doors, I’m a like of rejecting something to protect my loved ones and sometimes an open doors to welcome new things and experiences for us to grow.

  48. Kourtnie permalink
    03/05/2018 5:56 am

    Oh man. Your blogs as get me thinking but I love this topic. I know a lot of time in life it feels like all you see are closed doors, but when one opens it’s the coolest thing in the world and when you are their… you are SO thankful for the closed doors from before.

  49. Emily Leary permalink
    03/05/2018 2:59 am

    Some very wise words here! I love the Alexander Graham Bell quote and your selection of photos is lovely!

  50. hillcitybride permalink
    03/05/2018 5:26 am

    I travel a bunch, and I always love looking for interesting doorways. They are so intricate and colorful. It’s easy to pass them by, but I really think they deserve a look! 🙂

    • hillcitybride permalink
      03/05/2018 5:27 am

      P.S. And I love your metaphor for doors being open/closed in our life’s journey. <3

  51. Leslie Hernandez permalink
    03/05/2018 9:36 am

    Doors open and close all the time in our lives, but we have to learn that if one door closes another will open. Sometimes things happen for a reason and although we may not understand it we need to keep looking forward.

  52. Samuel onuoha permalink
    03/05/2018 11:25 am

    Personally I see closed those to mean, a requirement for proof of worthiness, not everyone is permitted to enter, but those who persist. Not every closed door is locked sometimes we just have to push. Great post. A really necessary reminder and motivation

  53. annerbananer1 permalink
    03/05/2018 11:50 am

    I often find my “internal” doors close off when an external door does. For instance, I was like you and didn’t get a job I really wanted and closed myself off emotionally for quite some time afterwards because of the rejection I had experienced.

  54. blogthirtyminusone permalink
    03/05/2018 12:09 pm

    I love the theme for this weeks motivational Mondays. Doors are more than just that depending on the perspective that you have.
    Nailil

  55. Misty permalink
    03/05/2018 12:34 pm

    I love seeing the different themes of the photos you post. The doors is one of my favorites you have done.

  56. Nicole permalink
    03/05/2018 1:15 pm

    A very insightful post. It is difficult to see a closed door as an opportunity, but the sooner we do, the sooner we will find our correct door.
    I had never really thought of myself as having doors that I have shut that I need to work through and past, I’m going to make some tea and think more on this subject. Thank you for giving me this topic to ponder.

  57. Lees Garcia permalink
    03/05/2018 2:07 pm

    Not bad, when one door closes another opens also only if we are looking for it, which I find to be the most important part. only IF and WHEN you are ready to stop staring at that closed door will you see other opportunities that lay around.

    Thanks!

  58. Kyle A permalink
    03/05/2018 5:21 pm

    I like the way you presented the article. And the quote “When one door closes, another opens”, is so true, but we have to remind ourselves of this sometimes.Thank you.

  59. Gladys Parker permalink
    03/05/2018 2:49 pm

    Due to being an introvert, having anxiety panic, depression and physical health issues I have shut almost all of my internal doors. I have been hurt mentally and physically and didn’t care about my own self to repair those hurts or prevent myself from physical illnesses. Now some of the time I try to look forward, although, most of the time I just wait for the end. One of these days I’ll try to be positive and it will work, hopefully.

  60. Khushboo Motihar (@kbmotihar) permalink
    03/05/2018 7:39 pm

    Closed door to me represents something that I had the opportunity to access which has been taking away from me. But I also believe that when one door closes, there are many other options available/

  61. Sarah’s Sage Advice permalink
    03/05/2018 8:10 pm

    Sometimes closed doors are the way of pointing us in a new direction. Love the post.

  62. Regine L. permalink
    04/05/2018 1:01 am

    Great post! It is so inspiring and motivating. I love the quotes. Thank you for the reminder and the motivation tip.

  63. Sanjeev permalink
    04/05/2018 8:10 am

    Hi Elizabeth,

    Regret over the closed door or lost opportunities is one of the worst feeling. It’s always better to have a open mind and look for what we have acheived rather than what we could have if we have got that closed door. It’s not worth fighting every battle.

    – Sanjeev

  64. Nallely Tapia permalink
    04/05/2018 10:26 am

    i had lots of closed door n my life and i was always depressed by that but now i know it was all for the better, it it wasnt for that i certainly wouldnt be here commenting lol you just need to be patient and redy to recieve what will eventually come

  65. Chastity permalink
    04/05/2018 1:43 pm

    Those moments when the door closes is a challenging one. Filled with tons of strong emotions. But once that emotion settles when the right door opens we always find some type of peace. It all falls into place and the door was closed for a reason. Now is the time that it was meant for you when that door opens.

  66. Joanna permalink
    05/05/2018 12:11 am

    I do believe that when a door closes, another one opens. And I have experienced this a few times in my life. The new opportunity was so much better and so much exciting than the one under the closed door, always.

  67. Candy Rachelle permalink
    05/05/2018 12:40 am

    Incredibly thought provoking and positive. I’d like to say closed doors are doors waiting to be opened!

  68. Jagriti Roy permalink
    04/05/2018 11:06 pm

    Your article reminded me a famous quote by Hellen Keller. According to which, when a door get closed in front of you thousand other opened doors opens up for us.. But we are so bust looking at the closed door that the opened doors remain unnoticed…. ☺

  69. Ann permalink
    05/05/2018 7:36 am

    I so agree to the quote, “when one door closes, another one is sure to open” Remind us to never give up, everything has it’s own time.

  70. Robin permalink
    06/05/2018 9:39 am

    So true and I love the Joel Osteen quote you left. Every closed door really does mold you into who you are.

    Robin

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      06/05/2018 8:30 pm

      i DO TOO.

  71. Fiona Crystal permalink
    06/05/2018 8:26 am

    Great article! I always look at closed door as an opportunity for me to find a new door. There is always something to look forward to in life

    XOXO Fiona | fionadiaries.com

  72. Style With Robin permalink
    06/05/2018 6:58 pm

    I love this. I am a real believer that everything happens for a reason, and most reasons are not made visible until later. Looking back I would not change anything, so it goes to reason that looking forward, I would accept a closed door as a blessing. Great post!

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      06/05/2018 8:29 pm

      lIKEWISE! 🙂

  73. Blair Villanueva permalink
    07/05/2018 2:27 am

    Yeah I also believe that when that door opens for you, you should take it. And when it closes, be patient coz another door might open, sometimes its a window, or if you are lucky, a full gate will open.

  74. Monique Elise permalink
    07/05/2018 5:11 am

    Great read. And I agree certain doors stay closed for a reason!

  75. cleverlychanging permalink
    07/05/2018 6:46 am

    I’ve always felt that when one door closes a better opportunity will come your way. Sometimes it may see lovely, but it’s not a great fit for you, your future, or your lifestyle. It’s really all about perspective.

  76. topknotchonline permalink
    08/05/2018 5:59 am

    I always enjoy your articles, so thought provoking!

  77. Nicole permalink
    08/05/2018 12:00 pm

    This is a very inspirational post! I believe that when one door closes, another one will shortly open. Everything happens for a reason, even if we don’t know what that reason is at the time, there always is one.

  78. Mary Jingjing Mortos Lopez permalink
    08/05/2018 5:41 pm

    For me a close door would mean an opportunity awaiting ahead of me, behind those doors are the most wonderful things that might happen in my life if i take the step to move forward and open the doors as sign of accepting the challenge.

  79. Chuck permalink
    09/05/2018 6:29 am

    Absolutely love this. I personally believe also that everything happens for a reason and when time comes for us we should always open our door to whatever comes in our way.

  80. ladysworldoffashion permalink
    09/05/2018 1:40 pm

    I love your pictures you choosed on your article. Very cool topic and great idea.

  81. Cia Black permalink
    10/05/2018 7:07 pm

    A closed door to me, means another opportunity is waiting for you. Because even if one door is closed there are many other waiting to be opened.

  82. Jagriti Roy permalink
    11/05/2018 8:58 am

    Retaining the calm while all doors seems closed in front of you is the toughest job one can do. In that time the sense of looking everything makes us pissed off everything and we fail to look the opportunities we are going to have in future. Your article is powerful enough to redirect people during their that frustrating time. As I am facing some challenges in my personal life right now this motivation is going to be really helpful to me.

  83. lavandamichelle permalink
    17/05/2018 2:51 am

    I used to be so focused on the doors that shut, that I forget to see all the ones opening up all around me. Now when I door closes I smile and a look forward to what God has for me next.I know the benefit of a closed door. I used put wedges in the door because I was so afraid for them to close, but once God’s forces them close and I see why, I find myself so grateful.

  84. Indu permalink
    20/05/2018 4:59 am

    Closed doors. Perfect read for me. I have experienced that closed doors inwardly are much damaging. Anything can be conquered outwardly when inward awakening happens.

  85. Calvin permalink
    10/07/2018 10:27 am

    Got to love motivation any day of the week.

  86. Calvin permalink
    13/07/2018 10:19 am

    Closed doors are great! Depends on how you look at it.Even Behind closed doors we motivate each other

  87. LisaLisa Charleston permalink
    04/07/2026 3:11 am

    This is such a powerful reminder that not every closed door is a loss. Sometimes the best opportunities come from the paths we never expected. Thanks for the encouraging perspective!

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      09/07/2026 12:19 pm

      Thank you too. I agree with your points too.

  88. Sonia Seivwright permalink
    04/07/2026 2:01 pm

    I really liked the bit about the doors we keep shut ourselves too. That part felt very real, because fear and doubt can talk us out of so much before we even try. Such a calm, encouraging read.

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      09/07/2026 12:20 pm

      I appreciate your insight and yes, we often read about others closing doors on us but we also close doors on ourselves.

  89. Clarice permalink
    06/07/2026 7:22 am

    When I was younger, I used to see closed doors as failures or disappointments. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve started to see them as redirections instead. I don’t take rejection as hard as I used to because I’ve learned that not everything is meant for us. Sometimes, it’s simply God and the universe leading us toward something better that’s meant for us.

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      09/07/2026 12:20 pm

      I concur. Sometimes an assumed failure is a doorway to greater blessings. I’m seeing that in my life right now.

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