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Haiku: On Being STYLISH

21/09/2016

“Style is very personal. It has nothing to do with fashion. Fashion is over quickly. Style is forever.” Ralph Lauren

Haiku: On Being STYLISH - Irreplaceable not fashionable

Haiku: On Being STYLISH – Irreplaceable, not fashionable

Fashion changes but style endures Coco Chanel
Confidence is the best fashion accessory. Vivienne Westwood
You can’t try to be somebody you’re not; that’s not style. If someone says, ‘Buy this – you’ll be stylish,’ you won’t be stylish because you won’t be you. You have to learn who you are first, and that’s painful. Iris Apfel

On a cold, dank night
Stylish sauntered in … wearing
A paper bag hat

 

Nary a misstep
She smiled, brightening the dull room
No chains and gauche gowns

 

Irreplaceable
Stylish worked the room that night
Not … fashionable

In response to today’s one-word prompt, we take a closer look at a word even many fashionistas struggle with… Style. Where does fashion end and style begin?

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“What makes a woman stylish is what she has to say and how she chooses to live her life.” Shirley Manson

Haiku: On Being STYLISH - Irreplaceable not fashionable

Haiku: On Being STYLISH – Irreplaceable not fashionable

 

Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak Rachel Zoe
In order to be irreplaceable, one must be different. Coco Chanel
Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it. Yves Saint Laurent
I wash my hands of those who imagine chattering to be knowledge, silence to be ignorance, and affection to be art. Khalil Gibran

 

Today, we discuss
the merits of wearing brains
instead of cute trends

 

Not fashionable
but style … lit the room tonight
Unequivocal

 

What we make of it
Time will elegantly tell…
Style is forever

Do you wear fashion or does it wear you? I like fashion, but I love style… It’s so captivating; like a breath of fresh, innovative air in a room full of sameness. Where does fashion end and style begin?

 

This post was inspired by a Daily Word Prompt:  – STYLISH – Write a new post in response to today’s one-word prompt. Not sure how to participate? Here are the steps to get started.

Positive Motivation Tip: In fragility, strength can flourish.

PHOTO CREDITS/ATTRIBUTIONS: All Photos: From public domain photos on Pixabay and my Personal Collection

Until Next Time…
Ask. Believe. Receive. ©
Elizabeth Obih-Frank
Mirth and Motivation
Positive Kismet

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103 Comments leave one →
  1. Katie Smith permalink
    21/09/2016 3:18 pm

    I like that quote from Ralph Lauren: Fashion is over quickly. Style is forever. It is so true look at art!

  2. Masshole Mommy permalink
    21/09/2016 3:22 pm

    I used to worry about my clothes being in style, but now I don’t care. I like to be comfortable.

  3. Goz permalink
    21/09/2016 3:44 pm

    And of course, who better to write about style than the fabulously original Liz! You were born with it..

    • Eliz@MirthandMotivation permalink*
      08/10/2026 1:15 pm

      You are far more stylish than me.

  4. Kendra permalink
    21/09/2016 3:26 pm

    I’ve always love that quote by Ralph Lauren!

  5. laurahartleyy permalink
    21/09/2016 4:11 pm

    This one actually made me laugh! There is definitely a difference between fashion and style. I think style is timeless but fashion comes and goes.

  6. Amanda Love permalink
    21/09/2016 6:01 pm

    I would have to say that fashion is where you draw inspiration from and style is how you wear and interpret that inspiration. This is purely when it comes to clothes, of course. I would prefer to have style than to wear anything that’s trendy. Like what they always say, dare to be different.

  7. Carol Cassara (@ccassara) permalink
    21/09/2016 6:25 pm

    I can honestly say that fashion comes and goes but I have my own style. Some things are wearable still, and “in style” for me, anyway, 10 years after I bought it. I am older, so trends are not that interesting to me any more. Classic style, class AND style? Yes.

  8. Liz Mays permalink
    21/09/2016 6:44 pm

    This is interesting to think about. I guess style is something a person has but fashion might just be the clothes.

  9. Amer Phils permalink
    21/09/2016 6:56 pm

    This is an area that I would fail… being stylish! I’m jealous of people who knows how to put together outfits, I just like comfortable shirts and jeans.

  10. Cindy Ingalls permalink
    21/09/2016 7:32 pm

    I think style is all about confidence. It doesn’t matter what you where if you can’t walk in the room with your head held high.

  11. Gwendolyn Mulholland permalink
    21/09/2016 8:27 pm

    I don’t think you have to follow the latest “fashion trends” to be stylish. I think style comes from within more than on the outside. I don’t know why looks become the primary focus.

  12. katrinajeancarter permalink
    21/09/2016 9:34 pm

    “Stylish worked the room last night”–I love it. That will stay with me forever. Those with style don’t necessarily follow trends yet never fail to make an impact. Wonderful read as always

  13. Teresa permalink
    22/09/2016 12:45 am

    I have to agree. I didn’t look at this way but the way you broke it down so real

  14. allaboutbabysworld permalink
    21/09/2016 10:23 pm

    So cute! I love it!

  15. Lucid Gypsy permalink
    21/09/2016 10:55 pm

    I used to be stylish, now I’m just me. 🙂

  16. Melanie Smith permalink
    21/09/2016 11:25 pm

    I really love that Ralph Lauren’s quote! It is so true, fashion comes and goes, style is forever!

  17. Nicole Herose Cochingco - Escat permalink
    22/09/2016 12:11 am

    Style is always on trend, I do believe that everyone has its own style. Yeah, fashion can easily get outdated but style never as long as you are confident enough to bring your personal style!

  18. j2mason816 permalink
    22/09/2016 3:21 am

    Such great thoughts on style and fashion done in such a clever way!

  19. Jill Conyers (@jillconyers) permalink
    22/09/2016 1:28 am

    Love the collage images. Perfect for an expression of stylish.

  20. Ryan Escat permalink
    22/09/2016 1:51 am

    My wife is very confident when it comes to her own style. This is a wonderful post, I like it.

  21. Nicole Haas Etolen permalink
    22/09/2016 1:56 am

    Lovely post. I totally agreed on this. Fashion fades away in time but style never does.

  22. Rose Pingol permalink
    22/09/2016 2:03 am

    I like being stylish, I think having enough confident will do in whatever trend you are wearing. I love your interpretation of being stylish.

  23. JessicaACassidy (@wifetoalineman) permalink
    22/09/2016 3:29 am

    I love to watch fashion show but always pick clothes that suits my style and personality not from the models that I admire.

  24. Karlyn Flores permalink
    22/09/2016 3:41 am

    Yes I agree Confidence is the best fashion

  25. Laura permalink
    22/09/2016 4:56 am

    For me I’d say style has gone out of the window a little since I left most of my clothes back in Australia when I moved to the UK and had to pick clothes with multi purposes and that were practical. I am looking forward to a bigger range of clothes when I get home. I love dressing up and wearing nice dresses.

  26. Steve Goodwin permalink
    22/09/2016 5:15 am

    Interesting topic. Love the flow of the poem and all the quotes! Great job.

  27. Anna permalink
    22/09/2016 6:11 am

    Love this post. You need to wear the clothes not let the clothes wear you. I believe you either have style or not. I’ve seen many women wear expensive clothes but they have absolutely no sense of style.

  28. soulsensecoaching permalink
    22/09/2016 9:27 am

    I am so not fashionable it is not funny. I go for sporty comfort and am happiest weraing tekkies (sneakers)!

  29. Liz Mays permalink
    22/09/2016 6:46 am

    My daughter is the kind of person who wears fashion. It enhances her, but it’s because she has such poise and presence that she’s stylish. She defines her style.

  30. Niesha Byln permalink
    22/09/2016 10:12 am

    I totally agreed with you. I wish fashion ends and style be born. Everyone is dying to be on fashion when they do not have a style!

  31. angie permalink
    22/09/2016 8:16 am

    Not only stylish but beautiful as well. Thanks for sharing
    Come see us at

  32. Kelly K permalink
    22/09/2016 11:29 am

    I used to be a little bit fashionable but ever since we have kids, I think I’ve kind of fallen into the mommy rut. I still love looking through magazines to see what’s in style at the moment though.

  33. Bhushavali permalink
    22/09/2016 9:06 am

    I wear fashion & more often than not its quirky, even though that’s not always the trend.

  34. Parenting Healthy permalink
    22/09/2016 10:00 am

    I don’t dress for who I am all of the time, but rather who I inspire to be 🙂

  35. Megan Ogden permalink
    22/09/2016 12:43 pm

    My style is mostly yoga pants! LOL. I’m glad my job is laid back enough where I can wear jeans or yoga pants any day. 😛

  36. lex permalink
    22/09/2016 1:44 pm

    “Style is very personal. It has nothing to do with fashion”

    This part of your quote sums up my mindset for this article. yes its true and deep but alot of people don’t get the messages.

  37. Mistee Dawn permalink
    22/09/2016 3:26 pm

    Awesome post! I think my favorite haiku was this one … Today, we discuss
    the merits of wearing brains
    instead of cute trends! So true!

  38. Eileen xo permalink
    22/09/2016 6:26 pm

    “Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.” – Yves Saint Laurent, by far one of my most favorite quotes! It is so true…most important to be the best we can be and the rest follows

  39. Fred permalink
    22/09/2016 3:51 pm

    I liked the third haiku the best. The use of words was impeccable to convey a sense of irony about stylish not necessarily equivalent to fashionable. I hope I got your meaning right. 🙂

  40. 22/09/2016 4:05 pm

    Love all of these quotes and they are right, fashion is fleeting but style endures because it’s all about what you uniquely add to it that no one else can.

    XO, MJ

  41. esavingsblog permalink
    22/09/2016 7:33 pm

    Beautiful Haiku! Thank you 🙂

  42. momknowsbest15 permalink
    22/09/2016 9:03 pm

    I think I wear fashion. It makes me feel good.

  43. Melanie Smith permalink
    22/09/2016 9:02 pm

    I love those quotes! Style is forever, everything can change but style always stay.

  44. dina97 permalink
    23/09/2016 12:20 am

    Love it 🙂 and I definitely agree!
    Style isn’t just about clothes and accessories.

  45. Jelena permalink
    23/09/2016 2:58 am

    Lovely haiku!

  46. planningthemagic permalink
    23/09/2016 6:41 am

    Nice piece! Photos look amazing.

  47. Marisa Franca @ All Our Way permalink
    23/09/2016 4:35 am

    I do love the quotes. When I think of style, I think of Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn. They had a way about them that made you want to emulate them. But it wasn’t just their outer appearance, they had a beautiful soul.

  48. franckxethee permalink
    23/09/2016 4:37 am

    I agree fashion changes but style does not. We should have that sense of style that goes with any season of fashion.

  49. Jason Panuelos permalink
    23/09/2016 4:38 am

    We really have to be reminded that being stylish isn’t everything. This is such a great haiku :O

  50. Tiffany Yong permalink
    23/09/2016 4:47 am

    Style is something subjective. To me, being stylish is to be confident with your skin and what you wear. One can be stylish even in shirt and jeans.

  51. Clara permalink
    23/09/2016 5:19 am

    The images mirror the words nicely. Thanks for sharing your poetry.

  52. 23/09/2016 8:26 am

    I think style is unique to each person 🙂

  53. Terri Ramsey Beavers permalink
    23/09/2016 5:49 am

    I agree that a woman is stylish in how she chooses to live her life. I don’t think style necessarily has anything to do with fashion.

  54. tp keane permalink
    23/09/2016 7:00 am

    what a great little insight into being stylish, not fashionable.

  55. Tanya Herholdt Badenhorst permalink
    23/09/2016 7:34 am

    I cant remember this mom body of mine went to the store to get myself something… at l east I am enjoying the “window shopping” Thx for sharing

  56. Karlyn Flores permalink
    23/09/2016 7:40 am

    What a beautiful post and quotes.

  57. Maintaining Me permalink
    23/09/2016 10:41 am

    Haikus were big when I was in highschool. We would always try to come up with random ones!

  58. The Walking Map permalink
    23/09/2016 8:03 am

    I like how this post distinguishes between fashion and style!

  59. kraushousemom permalink
    23/09/2016 8:06 am

    Being stylish has more to do with character than clothing.

  60. Aeryn Lynne permalink
    23/09/2016 9:46 am

    Your quote from Ralph Lauren is one of my absolute faves. I used to have a frame of it in my office for the longest time. 🙂

  61. RonRon permalink
    23/09/2016 12:47 pm

    Fashion changes but style lasts forever. This quote really rings a bell specially today.

  62. Glenda permalink
    23/09/2016 11:58 am

    Such a great post and beautiful picture selection Elizabeth! I am obsessed with both, fashion and style. 🙂

  63. Glenda permalink
    23/09/2016 12:00 pm

    Such a great post and beautiful pictures Elizabeth! I am obsessed with both Fashion and Style! 🙂

  64. nlampert permalink
    23/09/2016 1:57 pm

    I love the idea that style endures. I don’t follow a lot of trends and always prefer a more classic and timeless look.

  65. Neely (@Neelykins) permalink
    23/09/2016 2:23 pm

    Im the same way I love fashion but style is so fantastic. I am so drawn to people with great style. I love pouring over style magazines.

  66. Ileana permalink
    23/09/2016 4:02 pm

    This is such a fun post! I love Haikus… they were the most exciting thing to learn in school… and then went to fashion school, so this is perfect!
    xoxo,

    Ileana

  67. inspiring kitchen permalink
    23/09/2016 7:34 pm

    style is personal… it should make one comfortable and stand out by being who they are and with their style 🙂

  68. Adriana Lopez (@MrsALOMartin) permalink
    23/09/2016 7:54 pm

    Style is your own staple so I agree with Ralph Lauren. Fashion is cool but having style makes whatever you wear a fashion statement =)

  69. Tanya Herholdt Badenhorst permalink
    24/09/2016 1:29 am

    True, you can have no money end no status and still have style! Style is a reflection of your inner being

  70. Momina Arif permalink
    24/09/2016 2:59 am

    This is such a thought provoking post. I do feel sometimes that keeping up trends makes life unnecessarily harder.

  71. Ave Hla permalink
    24/09/2016 3:30 am

    I really like the Coco Chanel’s quote: “In order to be irreplaceable, one must be different.” We can all dress in the latest fashion and copy the looks, but in the end, one, who is stylish will stand out.

  72. carrie@thelavenderhytta permalink
    24/09/2016 3:31 am

    Finding your own style is so hard and you are right it is different from Fashion. I am still working on my own style.

  73. savingcmncents permalink
    24/09/2016 7:35 am

    I completely agree that style is very personal. I’m not about following the latest fad or fashion, but kind of like to find my own way!

  74. DecoPix (@TiinaTibs) permalink
    24/09/2016 8:20 am

    Style is so much more important than fashion. I try to be stylish nowadays and not buying all those fashionable pieces which are just for one season.

  75. Lisa Rios permalink
    24/09/2016 8:39 am

    I agree with the quote from Ralph Lauren that style stays forever. And it is very much true that how we chooses our life is what makes us the most stylish despite whatever fashion wears you or you wear it!

  76. noordinaryliz permalink
    24/09/2016 11:28 am

    Fashion is one thing I’m either good at or have no clue as to what I’m doing, LOL. I wish I could have a personal stylist with me at all times. Thanks for sharing your insights.

  77. Rika (@thedealmatch) permalink
    24/09/2016 3:47 pm

    I love fashion and I love style.. but I don’t always follow trends 🙂

  78. janella2016 permalink
    24/09/2016 4:17 pm

    style is very personal and people see it in different ways too.

  79. Michele permalink
    24/09/2016 4:46 pm

    I have always had my own style–I never really cared if it was fashionable or not! That not only applies to the clothing I wear–but to my writing style as well!

  80. Chubskulit Rose permalink
    24/09/2016 6:13 pm

    Beautipully said by Ralph Lauren. Fashion comes and goes but your style can be forever.

  81. Emy Cooks permalink
    24/09/2016 6:49 pm

    It is always interesting reading your post. There is always something new to learn. Enjoy the variety Great to know that Style is forever:)

  82. Subhadrika Sen permalink
    25/09/2016 3:10 am

    In todays world one often tends to mix up the two words style and fashion and almost use them interchangeably. But I completely agree with you that style in individualistic but fashion is a more broader term.

  83. sensubhadrika permalink
    25/09/2016 3:10 am

    In todays world one often tends to mix up the two words style and fashion and almost use them interchangeably. But I completely agree with you that style in individualistic but fashion is a more broader term.

  84. Rosie Romance permalink
    25/09/2016 4:26 am

    Fashion is something that you can buy but I believe style is ingrained into your being. I love the Ralph Lauren quote – so true.

  85. Rachel Mouton permalink
    25/09/2016 4:29 am

    I love this! “the merit of wearing brains” This is priceless! I talk to my kids about this often and how much better their lives will be if they work hard instead of look good.

  86. JessicaACassidy (@wifetoalineman) permalink
    25/09/2016 4:50 am

    I LOVED the quotes from Ralph Lauren.

  87. Taty Pradilla permalink
    25/09/2016 9:30 am

    My style pretty much consists of sweats and tees. I got the mommy style.

  88. Ana Sanchez permalink
    25/09/2016 9:32 am

    It has taken me awhile, but I have finally found my style.

  89. fortheloveofpeas permalink
    25/09/2016 6:38 am

    Style and fashion are certainly two different things. I would like to think I have style but don’t necessarily follow the fashion!

  90. Tiffany VanSickle permalink
    25/09/2016 7:13 am

    I absolutely LOVED this post, Elizabeth!!! So well-written!

  91. Jenny permalink
    25/09/2016 6:46 pm

    I am not very into fashion but love to see the trends. I think fall is one season I can really get into the fashion choices of.

  92. Eloise permalink
    25/09/2016 8:31 pm

    I do believe that fashion/ style is a form of non communitcation, a way to express ourselves and show the world a little bit of who we are without one word… style is fun : )

  93. Ria Coleto - Cervantes permalink
    26/09/2016 6:01 am

    This is a nice haiku to reflect on regarding inner beauty versus the fads out there that make a person “in” but when he/she is actually not. I believe in promoting the “real essence” of a beautiful person not because of the looks but because of what the characteristic of the person is.

  94. Maria Teresa Figuerres permalink
    26/09/2016 7:54 am

    I agree, style is personal. It defines who you are. We all have our personal styles that make us unique individuals.

  95. kikicarlson permalink
    26/09/2016 4:13 pm

    Such a great post! Many times fashion and style are used to mean the same thing when in reality they are two different things. I would much rather have style then wear what is fashionable.

  96. Ami Rose permalink
    27/09/2016 7:16 am

    Love these photos and quotes! I’m not fashionable whatsoever!

    Ami xxx

  97. lastchance3 permalink
    27/09/2016 11:18 am

    YOu are truly creative in being able to come up with a haiku about stylish. I’m not sure I’d be able to do so.

  98. Anamika Ojha permalink
    27/09/2016 6:09 pm

    I totally believe in the quote of Ralph Lauren that Style is very personal. You can follow latest fashion but you can’t create your personal style statement unless you don’t know how to carry your outfit with confidence!

  99. Marie permalink
    28/09/2016 9:50 am

    For me, I believe style is something that makes you comfortable. I always wear something that I am comfortable with. Also, having a partner that encourages you to just be who you are is very helpful. 🙂

  100. suchi permalink
    29/09/2016 6:35 pm

    you are right… style is more abt comfort & urpersonality than fashion

  101. Fully Housewifed! (@fullyhousewifed) permalink
    30/09/2016 4:36 am

    I used to think I was fashionable. But later on I realised tha tI was just keeping up with the trends….and desperately so, haha. Yes, style is forever. I’m now relearning style.

  102. Mhaan Arambulo (@momyrockinstyle) permalink
    06/10/2016 10:09 pm

    I am not that fashionista; as long as I wear comfortable clothes, that is fine with me.

    Mhaan |

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