Haiku: On Being STYLISH
“Style is very personal. It has nothing to do with fashion. Fashion is over quickly. Style is forever.” Ralph Lauren

Haiku: On Being STYLISH – Irreplaceable, not fashionable
Fashion changes but style endures Coco Chanel
Confidence is the best fashion accessory. Vivienne Westwood
You can’t try to be somebody you’re not; that’s not style. If someone says, ‘Buy this – you’ll be stylish,’ you won’t be stylish because you won’t be you. You have to learn who you are first, and that’s painful. Iris Apfel
On a cold, dank night
Stylish sauntered in … wearing
A paper bag hat
Nary a misstep
She smiled, brightening the dull room
No chains and gauche gowns
Irreplaceable
Stylish worked the room that night
Not … fashionable
In response to today’s one-word prompt, we take a closer look at a word even many fashionistas struggle with… Style. Where does fashion end and style begin?
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“What makes a woman stylish is what she has to say and how she chooses to live her life.” Shirley Manson

Haiku: On Being STYLISH – Irreplaceable not fashionable
Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak Rachel Zoe
In order to be irreplaceable, one must be different. Coco Chanel
Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it. Yves Saint Laurent
I wash my hands of those who imagine chattering to be knowledge, silence to be ignorance, and affection to be art. Khalil Gibran
Today, we discuss
the merits of wearing brains
instead of cute trends
Not fashionable
but style … lit the room tonight
Unequivocal
What we make of it
Time will elegantly tell…
Style is forever
Do you wear fashion or does it wear you? I like fashion, but I love style… It’s so captivating; like a breath of fresh, innovative air in a room full of sameness. Where does fashion end and style begin?
This post was inspired by a Daily Word Prompt: – STYLISH – Write a new post in response to today’s one-word prompt. Not sure how to participate? Here are the steps to get started.
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PHOTO CREDITS/ATTRIBUTIONS: All Photos: From public domain photos on Pixabay and my Personal Collection
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Elizabeth Obih-Frank
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I like that quote from Ralph Lauren: Fashion is over quickly. Style is forever. It is so true look at art!
I used to worry about my clothes being in style, but now I don’t care. I like to be comfortable.
And of course, who better to write about style than the fabulously original Liz! You were born with it..
You are far more stylish than me.
I’ve always love that quote by Ralph Lauren!
This one actually made me laugh! There is definitely a difference between fashion and style. I think style is timeless but fashion comes and goes.
I would have to say that fashion is where you draw inspiration from and style is how you wear and interpret that inspiration. This is purely when it comes to clothes, of course. I would prefer to have style than to wear anything that’s trendy. Like what they always say, dare to be different.
I can honestly say that fashion comes and goes but I have my own style. Some things are wearable still, and “in style” for me, anyway, 10 years after I bought it. I am older, so trends are not that interesting to me any more. Classic style, class AND style? Yes.
This is interesting to think about. I guess style is something a person has but fashion might just be the clothes.
This is an area that I would fail… being stylish! I’m jealous of people who knows how to put together outfits, I just like comfortable shirts and jeans.
I think style is all about confidence. It doesn’t matter what you where if you can’t walk in the room with your head held high.
I don’t think you have to follow the latest “fashion trends” to be stylish. I think style comes from within more than on the outside. I don’t know why looks become the primary focus.
“Stylish worked the room last night”–I love it. That will stay with me forever. Those with style don’t necessarily follow trends yet never fail to make an impact. Wonderful read as always
I have to agree. I didn’t look at this way but the way you broke it down so real
So cute! I love it!
I used to be stylish, now I’m just me. 🙂
I really love that Ralph Lauren’s quote! It is so true, fashion comes and goes, style is forever!
Style is always on trend, I do believe that everyone has its own style. Yeah, fashion can easily get outdated but style never as long as you are confident enough to bring your personal style!
Such great thoughts on style and fashion done in such a clever way!
Love the collage images. Perfect for an expression of stylish.
My wife is very confident when it comes to her own style. This is a wonderful post, I like it.
Lovely post. I totally agreed on this. Fashion fades away in time but style never does.
I like being stylish, I think having enough confident will do in whatever trend you are wearing. I love your interpretation of being stylish.
I love to watch fashion show but always pick clothes that suits my style and personality not from the models that I admire.
Yes I agree Confidence is the best fashion
For me I’d say style has gone out of the window a little since I left most of my clothes back in Australia when I moved to the UK and had to pick clothes with multi purposes and that were practical. I am looking forward to a bigger range of clothes when I get home. I love dressing up and wearing nice dresses.
Interesting topic. Love the flow of the poem and all the quotes! Great job.
Love this post. You need to wear the clothes not let the clothes wear you. I believe you either have style or not. I’ve seen many women wear expensive clothes but they have absolutely no sense of style.
I am so not fashionable it is not funny. I go for sporty comfort and am happiest weraing tekkies (sneakers)!
My daughter is the kind of person who wears fashion. It enhances her, but it’s because she has such poise and presence that she’s stylish. She defines her style.
I totally agreed with you. I wish fashion ends and style be born. Everyone is dying to be on fashion when they do not have a style!
Not only stylish but beautiful as well. Thanks for sharing
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I used to be a little bit fashionable but ever since we have kids, I think I’ve kind of fallen into the mommy rut. I still love looking through magazines to see what’s in style at the moment though.
I wear fashion & more often than not its quirky, even though that’s not always the trend.
I don’t dress for who I am all of the time, but rather who I inspire to be 🙂
My style is mostly yoga pants! LOL. I’m glad my job is laid back enough where I can wear jeans or yoga pants any day. 😛
“Style is very personal. It has nothing to do with fashion”
This part of your quote sums up my mindset for this article. yes its true and deep but alot of people don’t get the messages.
Awesome post! I think my favorite haiku was this one … Today, we discuss
the merits of wearing brains
instead of cute trends! So true!
“Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.” – Yves Saint Laurent, by far one of my most favorite quotes! It is so true…most important to be the best we can be and the rest follows
I liked the third haiku the best. The use of words was impeccable to convey a sense of irony about stylish not necessarily equivalent to fashionable. I hope I got your meaning right. 🙂
Love all of these quotes and they are right, fashion is fleeting but style endures because it’s all about what you uniquely add to it that no one else can.
XO, MJ
Beautiful Haiku! Thank you 🙂
I think I wear fashion. It makes me feel good.
I love those quotes! Style is forever, everything can change but style always stay.
Love it 🙂 and I definitely agree!
Style isn’t just about clothes and accessories.
Lovely haiku!
Nice piece! Photos look amazing.
I do love the quotes. When I think of style, I think of Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn. They had a way about them that made you want to emulate them. But it wasn’t just their outer appearance, they had a beautiful soul.
I agree fashion changes but style does not. We should have that sense of style that goes with any season of fashion.
We really have to be reminded that being stylish isn’t everything. This is such a great haiku :O
Style is something subjective. To me, being stylish is to be confident with your skin and what you wear. One can be stylish even in shirt and jeans.
The images mirror the words nicely. Thanks for sharing your poetry.
I think style is unique to each person 🙂
I agree that a woman is stylish in how she chooses to live her life. I don’t think style necessarily has anything to do with fashion.
what a great little insight into being stylish, not fashionable.
I cant remember this mom body of mine went to the store to get myself something… at l east I am enjoying the “window shopping” Thx for sharing
What a beautiful post and quotes.
Haikus were big when I was in highschool. We would always try to come up with random ones!
I like how this post distinguishes between fashion and style!
Being stylish has more to do with character than clothing.
Your quote from Ralph Lauren is one of my absolute faves. I used to have a frame of it in my office for the longest time. 🙂
Fashion changes but style lasts forever. This quote really rings a bell specially today.
Such a great post and beautiful picture selection Elizabeth! I am obsessed with both, fashion and style. 🙂
Such a great post and beautiful pictures Elizabeth! I am obsessed with both Fashion and Style! 🙂
I love the idea that style endures. I don’t follow a lot of trends and always prefer a more classic and timeless look.
Im the same way I love fashion but style is so fantastic. I am so drawn to people with great style. I love pouring over style magazines.
This is such a fun post! I love Haikus… they were the most exciting thing to learn in school… and then went to fashion school, so this is perfect!
xoxo,
Ileana
style is personal… it should make one comfortable and stand out by being who they are and with their style 🙂
Style is your own staple so I agree with Ralph Lauren. Fashion is cool but having style makes whatever you wear a fashion statement =)
True, you can have no money end no status and still have style! Style is a reflection of your inner being
This is such a thought provoking post. I do feel sometimes that keeping up trends makes life unnecessarily harder.
I really like the Coco Chanel’s quote: “In order to be irreplaceable, one must be different.” We can all dress in the latest fashion and copy the looks, but in the end, one, who is stylish will stand out.
Finding your own style is so hard and you are right it is different from Fashion. I am still working on my own style.
I completely agree that style is very personal. I’m not about following the latest fad or fashion, but kind of like to find my own way!
Style is so much more important than fashion. I try to be stylish nowadays and not buying all those fashionable pieces which are just for one season.
I agree with the quote from Ralph Lauren that style stays forever. And it is very much true that how we chooses our life is what makes us the most stylish despite whatever fashion wears you or you wear it!
Fashion is one thing I’m either good at or have no clue as to what I’m doing, LOL. I wish I could have a personal stylist with me at all times. Thanks for sharing your insights.
I love fashion and I love style.. but I don’t always follow trends 🙂
style is very personal and people see it in different ways too.
I have always had my own style–I never really cared if it was fashionable or not! That not only applies to the clothing I wear–but to my writing style as well!
Beautipully said by Ralph Lauren. Fashion comes and goes but your style can be forever.
It is always interesting reading your post. There is always something new to learn. Enjoy the variety Great to know that Style is forever:)
In todays world one often tends to mix up the two words style and fashion and almost use them interchangeably. But I completely agree with you that style in individualistic but fashion is a more broader term.
In todays world one often tends to mix up the two words style and fashion and almost use them interchangeably. But I completely agree with you that style in individualistic but fashion is a more broader term.
Fashion is something that you can buy but I believe style is ingrained into your being. I love the Ralph Lauren quote – so true.
I love this! “the merit of wearing brains” This is priceless! I talk to my kids about this often and how much better their lives will be if they work hard instead of look good.
I LOVED the quotes from Ralph Lauren.
My style pretty much consists of sweats and tees. I got the mommy style.
It has taken me awhile, but I have finally found my style.
Style and fashion are certainly two different things. I would like to think I have style but don’t necessarily follow the fashion!
I absolutely LOVED this post, Elizabeth!!! So well-written!
I am not very into fashion but love to see the trends. I think fall is one season I can really get into the fashion choices of.
I do believe that fashion/ style is a form of non communitcation, a way to express ourselves and show the world a little bit of who we are without one word… style is fun : )
This is a nice haiku to reflect on regarding inner beauty versus the fads out there that make a person “in” but when he/she is actually not. I believe in promoting the “real essence” of a beautiful person not because of the looks but because of what the characteristic of the person is.
I agree, style is personal. It defines who you are. We all have our personal styles that make us unique individuals.
Such a great post! Many times fashion and style are used to mean the same thing when in reality they are two different things. I would much rather have style then wear what is fashionable.
Love these photos and quotes! I’m not fashionable whatsoever!
Ami xxx
YOu are truly creative in being able to come up with a haiku about stylish. I’m not sure I’d be able to do so.
I totally believe in the quote of Ralph Lauren that Style is very personal. You can follow latest fashion but you can’t create your personal style statement unless you don’t know how to carry your outfit with confidence!
For me, I believe style is something that makes you comfortable. I always wear something that I am comfortable with. Also, having a partner that encourages you to just be who you are is very helpful. 🙂
you are right… style is more abt comfort & urpersonality than fashion
I used to think I was fashionable. But later on I realised tha tI was just keeping up with the trends….and desperately so, haha. Yes, style is forever. I’m now relearning style.
I am not that fashionista; as long as I wear comfortable clothes, that is fine with me.
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