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Books: Over 100 Must Read Memoirs To Whet Your Appetite…

“A memoir is how one remembers one’s own life, while an autobiography is history, requiring research, dates, facts double-checked.” Gore Vidal

Books: Over 100 Must Read Memoirs To Whet Your Appetite…

Books: Over 100 Must Read Memoirs Before You Kick The Bucket…
When I set out to put together a reading list of memoirs that have captured my heart over the years, I was quite happy to just gather the book titles and their authors and let you follow the trail and select what you wish to read. But as I researched the subject, I found that while a Memoir or reminiscence of a life as told by the individual who lived it is a literary genre that fits, as a subclass, under the umbrella of the Autobiography,(some say they are interchangeable words), it includes a range of options, formulas or styles of writing that an author can choose to use.

The Glass Castle: A Memoir by Jeannette Walls
Eat, Pray, Love Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
Sex Death Enlightenment: A True Story by Mark Matousek
Running With Scissors by Augusten Burroughs
With All My Might by Gabriella van Rij
Bone Black: Memories of Girlhood by bell hooks
Julie and Julia: 365 Days, 524 Recipes, 1 Tiny Apartment Kitchen by Julie Powell
Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel
When You Are Engulfed in Flames by David Sedaris
Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood by Marjane Satrapi
Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom
Lucky by Alice Sebold
Dreams from My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance by Barack Obama
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver
The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch
A Walk in the Woods: Rediscovering America on the Appalachian Trail by Bill Bryson
Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen
Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger’s by John Elder Robison
A Child Called “It” (Dave Pelzer, #1) by Dave Pelzer
On Writing by Stephen King

“I believe that the memoir is the novel of the 21st century; it’s an amazing form that we haven’t even begun to tap… we’re just getting started figuring out what the rules are.” Susan Cheever

If you decide to write a memoir your approach could be one or more of the following: The Victim Memoir; trauma, tragedy, a harrowing experience like The Child Called It by Dave Pelser. The Survivor Memoir; heroism, feats of strength, sacrifice and overcoming stories fit this one like Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer. The Celebrity Memoir; whatever fits your claim to fame, Guinness Book material or other unique stuff, can fit this mold not just the lives of the rich and famous. The Insider Memoir; Do you have a unique perspective or firsthand experience of a special time/ group/ scene then this approach is your mode. The Love Story Memoir; Have a great love story with obstacles? Sweeping drama? This is you. Additionally, Creative nonfiction, Diary records, and Fake memoirs provide a writer with a few more ways to share their story…

Bossypants by Tina Fey
The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank
The Boy He Left Behind: A Man’s Search for His Father by Mark Matousek
Me Talk Pretty One Day Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris
Night by Elie Wiesel
Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt
Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling
Girl, Interrupted by Susanna
Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly by Anthony Bourdain
My Life in France by Julia Child
Dry by Augusten Burroughs
Just Kids by Patti Smith
Nigger at Eton by Dillibe Onyeama
Keep On Dancing – An Autobiography by Sarah Churchill
The Kitchen Sink Papers: My Life As A HouseHusband by Mike McGrady
Journey by Robert and Suzanne Massie
Footprints of a Pilgrim by Ruth Bell Graham
Hard Times in Paradise by David Colfax
84, Charing Cross Road by Helene Hanff
Life on the Color Line: The True Story of a White Boy Who Discovered He Was Black by Gregory Howard Williams

“I gather together the dreams, fantasies, experiences that preoccupied me as a girl, that stay with me and appear and reappear in different shapes and forms in all my work. Without telling everything that happened, they document all that remains most vivid.” bell hooks

Books: Over 100 Must Read Memoirs To Whet Your Appetite…

I’ve always loved the idea of having a fly on the wall glimpse into the lives of others and when a writer is bold enough to include cringe worthy material, painful moments or emotionally charged moments of brutal honesty, things we normally prefer not to share, it adds something more to the storyline. I have gathered some of the most engaging personal narratives for your perusal. This list is not exhaustive and I’ll gladly add others you suggest so we can update and grow the reading list. I’ve read many of them and even own a copy of Dillibe Onyeama’s out of print book Nigger at Eton. Read, write and exchange ideas… Isn’t that what the writing life is about anyway?  More below!

A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
I Love Yous Are for White People: A by Lac Su
Reading Lolita in Tehran Reading Lolita in Tehran by Azar Nafisi
Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim by David Sedaris
Naked by David
I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
A Million Little Pieces A Million Little Pieces by James Frey
Three Cups of Tea: One Man’s Mission to Promote Peace … One School at a Time by Greg Mortenson
A Long Way Gone by Ishmael Beah
The Liars’ Club by Mary Karr
Marley & Me: Life and Love with the World’s Worst Dog by John
Stop-Time: A Memoir by Frank Conroy
Cheaper by the Dozen by Frank B. Gilbreth Jr.
I Should Have Seen It Coming When the Rabbit Died by Teresa Bloomingdale
The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride
Eric by Doris Herold Lund
Dove by Robin Lee Graham
Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim by David Sedaris
There Are No Children Here: The Story of Two Boys Growing Up in The Other America by Alex Kotlowitz

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Musings: In My Mother’s Garden…

“The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.” Honore de Balzac

Musings: In My Mother’s Garden… Bachelor’s button

Musings: In My Mother’s Garden… Frangipani…

Musings: In My Mother’s Garden… Gaillardia

The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.
She never existed before.
The woman existed, but the mother, never.
A mother is something absolutely new.
Rajneesh

As we approach Mother’s Day this coming Sunday, May 13, many of us will turn our attention to the special yet complex relationships we had/have with our mothers. Some are fraught with difficult moments, some with divine exchanges, and yet, others with no memories because of circumstances that led to an abbreviated childhood or the death of a loved one.   My relationship with my mother is not perfect…  However, she instilled in me a love for gardening; a love for beautiful tropical blooms with exotic names; Frangipani, Bougainvillea, Bachelor’s button, Hibiscus, Jacaranda, Gaillardia , Caladium and many, many more. For this post, I thought I’d share some of the flowers she planted, nurtured and celebrated when they bloomed. They were like children; bright, capricious, eager to please, and temperamental… For now, I wish her and all moms a Happy Mother’s Day! More below

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Musings: Three Takes For The Night…

“We only did probably two, three takes on every scene we did, at the most.” Kim Novak

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… A mini skirt at any age? Why not.

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… Taking life too seriously? learn to embrace your playful side.


Lola Monroe (Taylor Gang) – Dark Red Lipstick (New Music 2012) Any lyrics we wish to write? Why not! TY! akaHIPHOP.com

Like a great director, Plinky.com offers us lots of awesome blog topics to write about and share. For this post, I chose three questions/topics to share with you: Can you list three things you’ll never understand? What’s the most interesting biography or memoir you’ve read? Have you ever written your own music or song lyrics? I’ve created short vignettes on each question and I hope you enjoy the tongue-in-cheek humor in parts of it as well as the important information shared. Learn to relax and play. Life is short. Thank you!

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… Admit it!

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… Cat Fright?

Question: List three things you’ll never understand.
♥Why some stylists take it upon themselves to tell others what they can/can’t wear at a certain age… ditto music. Pass that mini leather skirt would ya!
♥ Why we sometimes deliberately do things that are zany. The temporary memory blank I can understand,  but the others are so true and so spot on ridiculous.
♥ Why our family cat sometimes acts as if there is a ghost in the room… or, at least, another presence that I can’t see but that spooks me out anyway.
More below! ;-)

♥ZANY: Lo and behold, WP has changed the comments notification system. Now when we leave a comment, before we hit submit, we must un-check the box below that says: Notify me of follow-up comments via email. If we forget, which I keep doing because we didn’t have to un-check that silly box in the past, there is a solution. We simply click on/go to Manage subscriptions found on every post that arrives in our mailbox, select Comments, check all the comments we wish to unfollow, click the small dialog box (Bulk Actions), select unfollow, then click apply and it deletes all of them. Bingo! It is a bit of a hassle and until we get used to the idea, many of us will have to use the above approach. I figured everyone was hip to this already or I would have posted about it. Cheers! :-)

“…You have two or three takes to get your part right, and if you have a problem well by the time you figure it out everyone’s moved on to the next scene. It’s good training, keeps you on your toes.”  John Heard (on the benefits of acting on television)

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… Esmeralda Santiago

Musings: Three Takes For The Night… Haruki Murakami

Question: What’s the most interesting biography or memoir you’ve read?
I’ve read far too many to list but a few that stand out are:
Esmeralda Santiago‘s memorable memoir in three parts, When I was Puerto Rican: A Memoir, Almost a Woman, and The Turkish Lover: A Memoir, kept me laughing and wanting more. She has a strong, lyrical voice and her unvarnished stories will make you both cringe and applaud her courage.
Buchi Emecheta‘s memoir; a haunting trilogy namely Second Class Citizen, In the Ditch, and Head Above Water, would make you laugh, cry, and rail against those who thrive on abusing others. She shares how she survived the scars of domestic violence by channeling her energy into writing and eventually confronting her abuser.
Teju Cole’s Open City, a fictional piece on a Nigerian doctor in NYC and his personal struggles, while not officially a biography or memoir, could easily be the autobiography of any dislocated immigrant trying to make sense of his/her surroundings in a new world.
Haruki Murakami‘s What I Talk About When I Talk About Running is a meditation on Murakami’s journey as a writer and the impact running has had on that journey. It is a brilliant quick read, and one of my daughters, who is into all things Japanese, shared her copy with me and I enjoyed every word; the ups and downs of an observant life well lived. Runner’s World has a great interview with him. Read it. More below! ;-)

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