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Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide…

06/03/2013

Happiness held is the seed; happiness shared is the flower.” John Harrigan

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide... Happy man

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide… Happy man

Have you ever seen a happy clam at high tide? Seriously, have you looked at any clams lately? If not, I can assure you they don’t look ecstatic. As I was putting this post together, I realized I had no idea about the origin of the popular, oft abbreviated  saying; “Happy as a Clam.” A little digging produced an explanation: Clams are harder to catch at high-tide. To live is to be happy.

My uncle Jaja was always upbeat and full of life; even at 65  he stayed active and interested in life. He was a farmer and palm wine tapper who made friends easily. Whenever he left the village to visit his two grown sons in the big city, it seemed like a set of megawatt bulbs had burned out. Invariably, he would return and regale us with stories of the people he met in the city. He liked to call them “Characters.”  Two stories came to mind for this exercise, and I’ll let the late Uncle Jaja speak for himself.

Uncle Jaja: Thank you my child! So, Last Easter when I went to the city, my sons and their wives fed me well. The food was so good, I had to take a stroll to the bar beach to work it off. As I walked on the beach, I noticed a very old man, with a basket of clams, hawking his wares while laughing and chatting with people walking by. He had a few teeth, wrinkly weathered skin, and grey hair, but with an ancient warrior’s gait.  His eye caught mine and he called me over.  I’m always happy to make a new friend so I went. After saying a traditional greeting, I called him Uncle.

“No, no man, call me Tabu!  You hear me!? Anyway what brings you here?” he shouted as he shook my hand.  ” The children.” I said.  “Good. Buy them some clams!”  He replied. Then he started laughing and cracking dirty jokes. I can’t even tell you.  He was full of life and knew a lot about seafood. We had a great chat and after some time,  he persuaded me to busy a few. I did and saying goodbye, headed back to my son, Oge’s, house.

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide... Happy clams?

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide… Happy clams?

Next day, I went to bar beach again and there he was, old man Tabu, carrying his basket of clams and dancing and laughing. This time I was curious to find out more. I went over, greeted him warmly and asked,  “Uncle Tabu, you look so happy today. What’s your secret? ”  He burst out laughing, even bending over to catch his breath.  “Me?, he said, “I’m a happy man. I smoke  five packs of cigarettes daily, drink 3 cases of whiskey and palm wine every week, eat meat 3 times a day and I don’t waste time with exercise. Instead, I hang out at the beach and make new friends like you! “

I was shocked! I’m 65 and can’t eat like that… How could this old man consume all that and still be standing?  Unbelievable! I had to ask Uncle how he does it and advice him…   I followed him to  the edge of the water where he stood rinsing out a metal teacup.  Tabu looked at me and said nothing.  He seemed subdued, even a little reflective.

I pulled myself together and in a bold voice, said, “Uncle, why the mission to self-destruction? I’m 65 and hope to see more grand children. I’m sure you already have a few.”   Uncle smiled  and said nothing.  So, I continued, “By the way, how old are you? I want to remember to be this happy when I’m older.” He looked at me and laughed. “No, I’m serious Uncle, please.” I said.  Uncle Tabu looked me in the eye and said, ” Man,  I’m twenty-six!”   I was flabbergasted, but you know what? We can’t speculate without having all the facts … and he was living his version of happy. -UJ.  Was he? More below

“A sense of humor… is needed armor. Joy in one’s heart and some laughter on one’s lips is a sign that the person down deep has a pretty good grasp of life.” Hugh Sidey

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide... Oddly Happy mermaid

Writing Challenge: Happy As A Clam At High Tide… Oddly Happy mermaid

We’ve all been there at least once in our lives. We get invited to an event and the dress code is one thing but we show up as something else. Having a great sense of humor helps and that is why I love the Oddly Happy Mermaid above. Years ago, back in the pre cellphone era, a group of friends were invited to a special holiday party. The dress code was “Festive.” Now, festive can be almost anything that the imagination spits up and it’s up to us to edit our choices. Needless to say, Mimi found the perfect outfit that channeled her inner mermaid and with a few alterations and shiny sequins, she was ready to party.

Mimi didn’t have the skull necklace or daring nature of our mermaid but she was always  able to inject humor and fun into any situation.  When her friends picked her up, they were in flashy, festive gowns not costumes. They thought Mimi’s outfit was a riot but fun. If they had laid off the wine before picking her up, I might be telling a different story. Yes, she was dressed like the mermaid sans skull necklace and yes, festive meant flashy formal to the organizers.

At the party, people gasped and turned away in embarrassment for Mimi, but she took it in her stride. She walked around introducing herself as the evening’s entertainer. She sang a few festive songs, told a bunch of jokes and soon started everyone dancing the conga line. As the night wore on, people lined up to take photos with Mimi and even her friends were treating her like a celebrity. By the time the party ended, way past midnight, she had planted a wonderful memory in everyone’s heart. There are many roads to happiness. Some work for a while and others for much longer. I need to go find  a fun outfit. Any ideas?  Thank you!

This post was inspired by the Daily Post Weekly Writing Challenge: Truth Is Stranger Than Fiction For this challenge, we want to see a photo of someone looking truly happy. Then we want to know why: what’s going on in the photo? What are you (or they) thinking about at the exact moment? (And if you really want to get into it: what happens next?)

*Please bear with me as I’m finally beginning to catch up on your blogs and commenting… I’m back on track; albeit at a slow pace. Thank you all for your patience! :-) EP4QRTYPPWRT

Positive Motivation Tip: Rest, Relax, Be happy… This is a fictional piece with real stories added… Enjoy! Namaste.

PHOTO CREDITS/ATTRIBUTIONS: All Photos: Happy Old Man, Mermaid LadyFive Clams, via Wikipedia

Until Next Time…
Ask. Believe. Receive. ©
Elizabeth Obih-Frank
Mirth and Motivation
Positive Kismet

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45 Comments leave one →
  1. 06/03/2013 3:45 pm

    Love it! Very creative – thanks.

  2. 06/03/2013 3:59 pm

    Fabulous, and the oddly happy mermaid is quite something too. I re-blogged a story the other day from the New Yorker about the actress Anne Hathaway, the “Happy Girl” whom many people find rather annoying. It’s hard sometimes to tell when people are really “happy” – and sometimes they can be so quiet about it…

    • 21/03/2013 5:50 am

      True… Happiness is more than what meets the eyes. Glad to hear from you and hope to reconnect soon. :-)

  3. 06/03/2013 4:11 pm

    I love the Uncle Tabu story and laughed loudly when he said he was 26! LOL Love it :D

  4. 06/03/2013 5:30 pm

    Tabu could be 26 years old in his mind, very jovial. As for the dress, how about borrowing Mimi’s outfit. I’m sure you will look fabulous.

  5. 06/03/2013 6:16 pm

    Delightful!

  6. 06/03/2013 10:03 pm

    Both great stories, Elizabeth, but I loved Mimi’s story. What a wonderful way to handle an awkward situation. :-)

  7. 06/03/2013 10:31 pm

    Good to have met Mimi and Tabu! Those clams look big. They they nice and meaty inside?

    • 21/03/2013 5:54 am

      TY dear one. I don’t eat clams because I’m allergic to them. But I suspect they are delish! :-)

  8. 06/03/2013 10:53 pm

    Love your take on this week’s writing challenge! I know people like Mimi and would love to be that way but I’m far too obsessed with what people think of me.

    • 21/03/2013 5:55 am

      Hi Ritu, I can relate as I’m like you on that one too. :-)
      Eliz

  9. 06/03/2013 11:50 pm

    Go Tabu!
    I love mermaids and water spirits so I agree you should choose a mermaid costume and make sure you show us the result :-)

    • 21/03/2013 5:56 am

      TY Gilly! Don’t hold your breath on that one. :lol: Miriam might oblige. ;-)

  10. 07/03/2013 3:16 am

    What a lovely story.

  11. 07/03/2013 3:51 am

    HAPPINESS IS NEVER CALM!!! ;) xxxx

  12. 07/03/2013 6:11 am

    I love a world where looks never enter into the equation. Great picture of that man. It speaks volumes.

  13. ropcorn permalink
    07/03/2013 7:56 am

    Happy as a clam, sounds so funny. How do you tell if a clam is happy? Hehe. Love that green outfit! Such a cool party dress. ;)

  14. 07/03/2013 9:40 pm

    Aha. A cliche. I love it! :-)

  15. 08/03/2013 6:58 am

    Love your photos and your blog! Cheers! http://www.segmation.wordpress.com

  16. 08/03/2013 3:41 pm

    Those clams look pretty smug :-D I reckon a sunflower costume with a bright yellow petalled headress would work well as as a fun outfit

  17. 08/03/2013 11:20 pm

    “A sense of humor… is needed armor…”

  18. 09/03/2013 5:12 am

    Great and interesting post, as usual I say as usual and I mean it… ;-)

    Clams always happy..? ;-)

    http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/as-happy-as-a-clam.html

    I’m not sure if there would be a single small clam that is little bit angry and talking and “What a day” while it is going down the pan… :-)

    • 21/03/2013 6:07 am

      You are funny! That is for sure; the clam story might be pure conjecture. :lol: TY!

  19. 09/03/2013 7:30 pm

    Your Uncle Jaja sounds like quite a character as well. Love the story.

  20. 11/03/2013 4:15 am

    Good for Mimi! She could have sulked, blushed, left, but she made the best of things – and everybody’s night :)

  21. 12/03/2013 4:22 am

    Thanks for the inspirational stories! With your sense of humour and self-confidence, you could carry off just about anything Eliz :-D

    • 21/03/2013 6:14 am

      Madhu you are so kind… I’m actually quite shy and retiring; especially of late. TY! :-)

  22. 12/03/2013 5:10 pm

    What great “Characters!”…

  23. 03/04/2013 9:22 pm

    Fantastic, Elizabeth. I really laughed of you Uncle Tabu story, really loved it. As for Mimi, yes, a sense of humour helps in most situations…

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